Dear Dr. Queerlove, I absolutely loathe foreskin. I’m circumcised and don't like the way an uncut cock looks or feels. Plus there's always that hygiene issue. One could say I have a down right phobia for foreskin. I know I am just going to have to get over […]
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Dr. Queerlove: I Can’t Keep It Up
Dear Doctor Q, I’ve been seeing someone, but lately I’ve started going limp during sex and cannot get my erection back. Sometimes I can jerk it back up but when I insert it into him it goes limp again. This has happened twice and though […]
Just The Tips: Kink For Beginners
I find it surprising how many guys are unwilling to try a little kink. Not all kinky play involves flogging and fisting! It’s as if busting out a blindfold will inevitably lead to getting bruised up and urinated on. That’s just not the case. (Unless […]
Dr. Queerlove: FB to BF?
Dr. Queerlove, So, I've had a fuck buddy for some time now. Through it, he's always had a boyfriend. Our chemistry is great and we are very attracted to each other, although we've only ever shared sexy time. He and his boyfriend recently broke up. […]
Dr. Queerlove: Hemmy Surgery
Hi Dr. Queerlove, Three years ago I had hemorrhoids surgery and I was in pain for about 3 months after surgery. Since the surgery I have not been able to bottom, because it is very painful. I've been in a relationship with a great guy […]
Dr. Queerlove: Bottoming 101
Hi Dr. Queerlove, I'm sort of new to hooking up with guys. I've fooled around with a few and have never done anything anal. However, I am ready to take that next step with this guy I'm seeing and wondering, if I'm bottoming, is there […]
Dr. Queerlove: To Three-Way, or Not to Three-Way?
Dr. Queerlove, Have you ever heard of a three-way relationship? Not just sex. More than a ménage à trois. Three people dating each other, possibly even living together, as boyfriends. My partner of five years met this guy through work who we both adore. We […]
Dr. Queerlove: Am I Being Too Nice?
Dr. Queerlove, I was dating this guy for 3 months. He told me he loved me and 2 weeks later went with some friends to a gay resort for a 5 day stay. I called, texted, sent smoke signals, but he never replied. His excuse […]
Dr. Queerlove: Can I Trust My Ex After He Tried to Force Me Out of the Closet?
Dr. Queerlove: My ex-boyfriend was everything I wanted in a guy: smart, hot, sweet, amazing in bed, loved to spend time with me, a family-minded guy. There was just one problem. He was out and I was in the closet. When we started dating he […]
Dr. Queerlove: How Do I Get Him To Marry Me?
Dr. Queerlove, [Last week] you told that guy to dump his boyfriend for not having sex with him, so I can imagine what you'll have to say about this. I've been with my boyfriend 8 years…and we have great sex. We moved to Boston in […]