Back in May, the winner of 2011’s “Get Inside Me Now” award, Spencer Reed, tweeted some dumb shit that infuriated me and tarnished my opinion of him forever. He wrote: “what is with all these random ass furry twink porn newbies… none of them are remotely hot and everyone seems to be crazy for them… Is average the new HOT??? or is everyone just going insane… Pornstars should not look real or average they should look like a fantasy”
I had tried to ignore this statement, because there are greater evils in the gay porn world. Just because Spencer’s an arrogant shithead, that shouldn’t prevent me from masturbating to his much hotter scene partners like Heath Jordan, Kyle King and Scott Hunter!
On top of that, this was around a time when even people I adore tweeted things that made me feel personally uncomfortable. I was convinced for a moment that all gay porn stars were opinionated twat waffles, and Jed Athens‘ contribution to The “Real Man” Project didn’t really help with that sentiment…
But in the end? I’ve realized that only some gay porn stars are opinionated twat waffles.
Maybe, just maybe, Spencer had a good point about these “random ass furry twink porn newbies”. Maybe he’s right that porn stars (two words, by the way) should not look real or average. What do you think??? Is average the new HOT??? Or do you prefer “fantasy” men like Spencer Reed???
– Dewitt
Photo credit: Alpha Males
Click through to explore the answer to Spencer’s question:
EXHIBIT A:
EXHIBIT B:
And now, here’s a clip from Spencer’s new scene with JP Dubois:
See more of Spencer Reed’s above-average bacne at Alpha Males!
i kinda agree. these are people who make their money by being the hottest guys around. the guys that you can’t imagine actually exist. when i watch porn, i want to see the ideal. not a guy i could actually get with, because for that, i could actually go get with him and be able to touch him instead of just watch. when i see porn, i want a guy with perfect abs and the face of an angel. however, i know that not everyone likes what i like, so i’m not offended by the existence of average-joe-porn
That acne back, made my boner go flacid for a week
gross…. i just threw up a little bit
I prefer average than gay-for-pay. Don’t we have enough hot gay porn stars to make us dream anymore? Do we need a straight it bi guy to turn us on?
I prefer average than gay-for-pay. Don’t we have enough hot gay porn stars to make us dream anymore? Do we need a straight it bi guy to turn us on?
I prefer average than gay-for-pay. Don’t we have enough hot gay porn stars to make us dream anymore? Do we need a straight it bi guy to turn us on?
Bacne! Oh Dewitt, you shady blogger you. 🙂
Bacne! Oh Dewitt, you shady blogger you. 🙂
Bacne! Oh Dewitt, you shady blogger you. 🙂
Hm, i don’t like this Spancer guy, i don’t even think he’s hot at all. And yes, i like average guys too, not everyone is hot, i’m not, you’re not, we need person, not hot person. Watching average guys having sex make me feel real
Hm, i don’t like this Spancer guy, i don’t even think he’s hot at all. And yes, i like average guys too, not everyone is hot, i’m not, you’re not, we need person, not hot person. Watching average guys having sex make me feel real
While not the most tactful way of putting it, I still agree in some way with Spencer Reed. I suppose, for me, it all depends on what kind of porn I’m watching. If I’m watching “amateur” porn I don’t necessarily want the models to be Adonises. However, if I’m watching something produced by Bel Ami or Falcon I’d rather have models who are approaching perfection. Yet in the end I’m not entirely sure there needs to be dichotomy at all. Why does this need to be an either/or supposition? Why do I (or we) need to choose? There should be room for all sorts of models in all sorts of porn. We all have different tastes. The industry may have a general trend toward one type of model over others at any given time, but that doesn’t mean that we should only have to watch (and beat off to) one form of fantasy (because let’s be honest even “average” porn models are fulfilling a fantasy too). Porn is fantasy, not reality.
While not the most tactful way of putting it, I still agree in some way with Spencer Reed. I suppose, for me, it all depends on what kind of porn I’m watching. If I’m watching “amateur” porn I don’t necessarily want the models to be Adonises. However, if I’m watching something produced by Bel Ami or Falcon I’d rather have models who are approaching perfection. Yet in the end I’m not entirely sure there needs to be dichotomy at all. Why does this need to be an either/or supposition? Why do I (or we) need to choose? There should be room for all sorts of models in all sorts of porn. We all have different tastes. The industry may have a general trend toward one type of model over others at any given time, but that doesn’t mean that we should only have to watch (and beat off to) one form of fantasy (because let’s be honest even “average” porn models are fulfilling a fantasy too). Porn is fantasy, not reality.
As a random ass furry twink porn newbie, I think Reed’s comment gets to the spirit of the problem but not the essence. Porn as it is produced now is a constant flooding of information and images: studios have to constantly churn out content in order to even stay afloat. A video released today could be forgotten tomorrow. You need more bodies to have more videos. That being said, the reduction of “fantasy” to just Spencer Reed or others like him is pretty reductionist. I think lots of people have lots of different ideas as to what their “fantasy” is.
Average is attainable, and more like our ordinary, every-day life encounters and fantasies of the moment~
That backnie pic is 100% shade. Burn!
That backnie pic is 100% shade. Burn!
You are MY fantasy, btw.
You are MY fantasy, btw.
ooohhhh, gimme that hairless hottie. let him bottom for me!
ooohhhh, gimme that hairless hottie. let him bottom for me!
If I want average all I have to do is look at myself and my sex partners.Yeah I am hot and all in average way and so are the guys I fuck with. All hot sexy guys in their own right. However if I am going to pay to see studs go at it I want to see the dream. I allready have the reality. So it is what it is.
If I want average all I have to do is look at myself and my sex partners.Yeah I am hot and all in average way and so are the guys I fuck with. All hot sexy guys in their own right. However if I am going to pay to see studs go at it I want to see the dream. I allready have the reality. So it is what it is.
You know……theres an old saying. Well not really….but I guess it would go like this……..who would be a pornstar when you could be a model? I think the hottest guys and girls (objectively) are still in the modeling world and the pornstars come at a close second. So there are plenty of hot guys in porn but……..no hot guy who could be paid to travel the world and make more money and keep his clothes on….is going to choose porn instead.
You know……theres an old saying. Well not really….but I guess it would go like this……..who would be a pornstar when you could be a model? I think the hottest guys and girls (objectively) are still in the modeling world and the pornstars come at a close second. So there are plenty of hot guys in porn but……..no hot guy who could be paid to travel the world and make more money and keep his clothes on….is going to choose porn instead.
I want to see Spencer bottoming for all these new random ass furry twinks!! Big guys need to be taken down 🙂
Dale you are currently one of the hottest and most interesting guys in porn .
I love your website and your VOICE is enough to make me cum on its own .
Roid dudes have nothing on you, but I would never have thought of you as a “twink” though. Explain that 😮
Oh sir, you are fucking sexy
It all depends on what you prefer watching. I prefer amateur porn and the more average looking guys. I am not attracted to men who shave every inch of their body. I like guys with hair.It is ok to “manscape” and trim, but I prefer them not to be bald, like the guys I meet….average, next door types
It all depends on what you prefer watching. I prefer amateur porn and the more average looking guys. I am not attracted to men who shave every inch of their body. I like guys with hair.It is ok to “manscape” and trim, but I prefer them not to be bald, like the guys I meet….average, next door types
Being a male fashion model doesn’t really pay off these days…
The career span is very short too and the rooms are very rare.People who manage to climb the ladder there generally ” know” someone if you know what I mean.
+People don’t do porn on the criteria that they are “pretty”( at least I hope so), they do it because they have a desire to show off their sexuality . If it’s not the case they shouldn’t be in this business.
Most fashion models bore me , on the other hand we have some guys that could be fashion models and do porn ( I m thinking Brady Jensen , D.O. a few years ago, even Damien Crosse …he is fucking hot), but most of the time “pretty” and “hot” do not mix .
More average porn stars allow the viewer to more easily visualize themselves taking part in the scene. They can also be less intimidating to those with body issues and seem more genuine to the viewer… Plus furry twinks are TOTALLY my thing 😉
He’s just pissed cuz he spent tons on roids not to mention sacrificed his health for his look when in reality he probably could have been just successful without all that. All you gotta do is look semi attractive and make the scene look like it isn’t mechanical.
He’s just pissed cuz he spent tons on roids not to mention sacrificed his health for his look when in reality he probably could have been just successful without all that. All you gotta do is look semi attractive and make the scene look like it isn’t mechanical.
He’s just pissed cuz he spent tons on roids not to mention sacrificed his health for his look when in reality he probably could have been just successful without all that. All you gotta do is look semi attractive and make the scene look like it isn’t mechanical.
He’s just pissed cuz he spent tons on roids not to mention sacrificed his health for his look when in reality he probably could have been just successful without all that. All you gotta do is look semi attractive and make the scene look like it isn’t mechanical.
It really to me at least a matter of confidence and integrity, an average looking guy who is comfortable in his own skin, and knows where he is and going in life, that’s the sexiest thing ever. While, I have met some “fantasy” porn stars who are just insecure as shit, and spend their time at the gym, because of the fear that their lives are going exactly nowhere really fast… what looks hot on screen, under all the lights, can look pretty sad up close. that’s just my personal opinion.
It really to me at least a matter of confidence and integrity, an average looking guy who is comfortable in his own skin, and knows where he is and going in life, that’s the sexiest thing ever. While, I have met some “fantasy” porn stars who are just insecure as shit, and spend their time at the gym, because of the fear that their lives are going exactly nowhere really fast… what looks hot on screen, under all the lights, can look pretty sad up close. that’s just my personal opinion.
It really to me at least a matter of confidence and integrity, an average looking guy who is comfortable in his own skin, and knows where he is and going in life, that’s the sexiest thing ever. While, I have met some “fantasy” porn stars who are just insecure as shit, and spend their time at the gym, because of the fear that their lives are going exactly nowhere really fast… what looks hot on screen, under all the lights, can look pretty sad up close. that’s just my personal opinion.
You know why I don’t like the ‘fantasy?’ Because the ‘fantasy’ looks like it came out a crate. ‘Fantasy’ gets mistaken for ‘perfection’ a lot, and both can intertwine, but they’re not the same thing to me. And as much as pornography is implicitly an act where the viewer can have access to people they wouldn’t normally have access to, but I wanna be a part of the sexual conversation too. I want to lust on a man without having to hate the way I look or the way everyone around me looks.
I find that yes, looks help me choose who my favourite porn stars are, but that only gets those men in the door. It’s half looks and half of what they do with it. Which means yes, I’ve ‘fantasized’ over gross looking guys who know how to fuck more than the ‘perfect’ looking bore.
And not that anyone cares what I think about him, but Spencer Reed knows how to fuck, and he was also once an ‘average twink.’
Watch this be the only time someone mistakes a Dewitt post for one of mine and Spencer Reed and his roid-ne arrives in Boston to pummel me.
I’m all for keeping it average because quite frankly it’s a matter of personal preference anyway.
I don’t think it has to be one or the other. I like watching guys I could concievably actually get with, I like seeing guys that could only exist in a fantasy world. Hell, combine the two together and you’ve got great porn.
I don’t think it has to be one or the other. I like watching guys I could concievably actually get with, I like seeing guys that could only exist in a fantasy world. Hell, combine the two together and you’ve got great porn.
I don’t think it has to be one or the other. I like watching guys I could concievably actually get with, I like seeing guys that could only exist in a fantasy world. Hell, combine the two together and you’ve got great porn.
Sorry baby, but not everybody wants to look like a Roidy such as yourself.
Sorry baby, but not everybody wants to look like a Roidy such as yourself.
Sorry baby, but not everybody wants to look like a Roidy such as yourself.
i am gonna speak up on this one because I AM an average furry guy although not a twink.
to me, porn has always been about the fantasy, yes… i am a total exhibitionist and voyeur and its primarily the reason i decided to do that very first film All Out ASSault. i NEVER thought i would go as far as have in this industry. i am indeed the average guy with an average look. i have an average build, average cock, but a BODACIOUS BOOTY i must say. my look speaks to a lot of guys who are not neccearaly attracted to muscle bound men. if you look a facebook, my fan base speaks for itself. my main page is 95% fans and my fan page is 100% fans. and, i get fan mail from all over the planet, so apparently im popular? i’ve even been described in an interview somewhere that “Mike Dreyden represent the guy you might find at one’s local bar and might have a shot of meeting/hooking up with”. very flattering and i kind of agree. just visit the NY Eagle on a sunday for bear blast!
we all have the right to express our opinions but i am sick and tired of people being nasty for no reason. stones and glass houses, ya know.
i think spencer has forgotten one very important thing about being a performer, that being, we ALL in our different shapes and forms are there to entertain the viewer. viewers have different tastes, interests and fantasies. many of us do not find spencer as attractive as he once was, in physique and personality. so, maybe he can forget about WHO is doing porn and focus on his work… like the rest of us.
~Mike Dreyden
i am gonna speak up on this one because I AM an average furry guy although not a twink.
to me, porn has always been about the fantasy, yes… i am a total exhibitionist and voyeur and its primarily the reason i decided to do that very first film All Out ASSault. i NEVER thought i would go as far as have in this industry. i am indeed the average guy with an average look. i have an average build, average cock, but a BODACIOUS BOOTY i must say. my look speaks to a lot of guys who are not neccearaly attracted to muscle bound men. if you look a facebook, my fan base speaks for itself. my main page is 95% fans and my fan page is 100% fans. and, i get fan mail from all over the planet, so apparently im popular? i’ve even been described in an interview somewhere that “Mike Dreyden represent the guy you might find at one’s local bar and might have a shot of meeting/hooking up with”. very flattering and i kind of agree. just visit the NY Eagle on a sunday for bear blast!
we all have the right to express our opinions but i am sick and tired of people being nasty for no reason. stones and glass houses, ya know.
i think spencer has forgotten one very important thing about being a performer, that being, we ALL in our different shapes and forms are there to entertain the viewer. viewers have different tastes, interests and fantasies. many of us do not find spencer as attractive as he once was, in physique and personality. so, maybe he can forget about WHO is doing porn and focus on his work… like the rest of us.
~Mike Dreyden
i am gonna speak up on this one because I AM an average furry guy although not a twink.
to me, porn has always been about the fantasy, yes… i am a total exhibitionist and voyeur and its primarily the reason i decided to do that very first film All Out ASSault. i NEVER thought i would go as far as have in this industry. i am indeed the average guy with an average look. i have an average build, average cock, but a BODACIOUS BOOTY i must say. my look speaks to a lot of guys who are not neccearaly attracted to muscle bound men. if you look a facebook, my fan base speaks for itself. my main page is 95% fans and my fan page is 100% fans. and, i get fan mail from all over the planet, so apparently im popular? i’ve even been described in an interview somewhere that “Mike Dreyden represent the guy you might find at one’s local bar and might have a shot of meeting/hooking up with”. very flattering and i kind of agree. just visit the NY Eagle on a sunday for bear blast!
we all have the right to express our opinions but i am sick and tired of people being nasty for no reason. stones and glass houses, ya know.
i think spencer has forgotten one very important thing about being a performer, that being, we ALL in our different shapes and forms are there to entertain the viewer. viewers have different tastes, interests and fantasies. many of us do not find spencer as attractive as he once was, in physique and personality. so, maybe he can forget about WHO is doing porn and focus on his work… like the rest of us.
~Mike Dreyden
i am gonna speak up on this one because I AM an average furry guy although not a twink.
to me, porn has always been about the fantasy, yes… i am a total exhibitionist and voyeur and its primarily the reason i decided to do that very first film All Out ASSault. i NEVER thought i would go as far as have in this industry. i am indeed the average guy with an average look. i have an average build, average cock, but a BODACIOUS BOOTY i must say. my look speaks to a lot of guys who are not neccearaly attracted to muscle bound men. if you look a facebook, my fan base speaks for itself. my main page is 95% fans and my fan page is 100% fans. and, i get fan mail from all over the planet, so apparently im popular? i’ve even been described in an interview somewhere that “Mike Dreyden represent the guy you might find at one’s local bar and might have a shot of meeting/hooking up with”. very flattering and i kind of agree. just visit the NY Eagle on a sunday for bear blast!
we all have the right to express our opinions but i am sick and tired of people being nasty for no reason. stones and glass houses, ya know.
i think spencer has forgotten one very important thing about being a performer, that being, we ALL in our different shapes and forms are there to entertain the viewer. viewers have different tastes, interests and fantasies. many of us do not find spencer as attractive as he once was, in physique and personality. so, maybe he can forget about WHO is doing porn and focus on his work… like the rest of us.
~Mike Dreyden
i am gonna speak up on this one because I AM an average furry guy although not a twink.
to me, porn has always been about the fantasy, yes… i am a total exhibitionist and voyeur and its primarily the reason i decided to do that very first film All Out ASSault. i NEVER thought i would go as far as have in this industry. i am indeed the average guy with an average look. i have an average build, average cock, but a BODACIOUS BOOTY i must say. my look speaks to a lot of guys who are not neccearaly attracted to muscle bound men. if you look a facebook, my fan base speaks for itself. my main page is 95% fans and my fan page is 100% fans. and, i get fan mail from all over the planet, so apparently im popular? i’ve even been described in an interview somewhere that “Mike Dreyden represent the guy you might find at one’s local bar and might have a shot of meeting/hooking up with”. very flattering and i kind of agree. just visit the NY Eagle on a sunday for bear blast!
we all have the right to express our opinions but i am sick and tired of people being nasty for no reason. stones and glass houses, ya know.
i think spencer has forgotten one very important thing about being a performer, that being, we ALL in our different shapes and forms are there to entertain the viewer. viewers have different tastes, interests and fantasies. many of us do not find spencer as attractive as he once was, in physique and personality. so, maybe he can forget about WHO is doing porn and focus on his work… like the rest of us.
~Mike Dreyden
Seriously he’s gotta be kidding!! He might wanna take a look in the mirror. He is far from model material himself. Average face, bad skin and lord look at the acne on his back. Think somebody might abuse roods just a bit??? Those who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.
Seriously he’s gotta be kidding!! He might wanna take a look in the mirror. He is far from model material himself. Average face, bad skin and lord look at the acne on his back. Think somebody might abuse roods just a bit??? Those who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.
Bacne. A sure sign of anabolic steroid use. I like naturally meaty beef not steroid enhanced beef with atrophied testicles.
Everything about Spencer Reed turns my stomach CANNOT STAND HIM !! YUK
By definition, twinks are not average, so he automatically lost any credibility by saying that!
By definition, twinks are not average, so he automatically lost any credibility by saying that!
By definition, twinks are not average, so he automatically lost any credibility by saying that!
By definition, twinks are not average, so he automatically lost any credibility by saying that!
Spencer Reed is another disgusting needle hound steroid monkey. No one gets a body like that OR acne like that without illegal drugs. That isn’t fantasy, that basically suicide. He is another Erik rhodes waiting to happen
maybe he just waxed his back
but backance is a def turn off … obv
Love you, Mike!
::booty smooches::
I kinda agree with what he said. Porn is a fantasy and so it should be mostly hot, muscular men. Though it really is the viewers preference. its subjective. There are a lot of gross looking men in porn. :/ and that back acne is disgusting.
“Average” is a very subjective and rather judgmental term. His words show us that he has a need to judge. Perhaps if he see’s this post, especially in light of Exhibit B, he might want to take a deeper look at that need. We’re all entitled to our opinions, beliefs, preferences and judgments but typically it’s best if we don’t share them with the world.
“Average” is a very subjective and rather judgmental term. His words show us that he has a need to judge. Perhaps if he see’s this post, especially in light of Exhibit B, he might want to take a deeper look at that need. We’re all entitled to our opinions, beliefs, preferences and judgments but typically it’s best if we don’t share them with the world.
LOVE YOU MORE DEWITT2IT!!! ~XXOO
knowing your kind of luck, that probably would happen too.
l.m.a.o.
(´nice self-referential humour there, dude!)
i look at that public infestation of his bacne as karma’s way of reminding mr. spencer that he may want to consider being a little more careful with his words, and also aim for a more humble approach, in his future.
anyway.
the problem with discussing what’s “average” is.. ..that there are a very large, diverse group of people who fall within that category.
even reed, himself, may be thought of in that way, to be honest.
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