Once upon a time, a friend of mine was complaining that he couldn't get a date through Manhunt. He was tired of the hook-up scene and looking for something a little more fulfilling. When he showed me his profile, I nearly slapped his damn head. He had nothing but naughty shots in his public pictures. He explained that he thought sexual compatibility and attraction were important for him in a relationship. I obviously do too, but I wouldn't be parading around my goods if I were looking for a husband!
Another time, a different friend was bitching that all anyone ever wanted to do was date him. He had just gotten out of a long-term relationship, and his priority at the time was getting some good dick. He showed me his profile, and there wasn't a single body picture! I tried to explain to him that his face pictures were adorable, but they made him look too cute and approachable. We did a little photo shoot, and by the end of it… well, let's just say I single-handedly helped solve his whole "getting laid" problem. Oh, and the pictures helped too.
This may seem obvious, but I'm often flabbergasted by the amount of guys who don't grasp this concept. If you want to get sex, you should show your body. If you're looking for love, you shouldn't look like a raging slut. Has anyone else run into guys like this?
– Dewitt
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