Random Question: Your One Worst Flaw?

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If you had the opportunity to change one thing about yourself–with absolutely no consequences or side effects–what would you choose to alter? This doesn't necessarily have to be a physical trait. It could even be a certain aspect of your personality that you'd like to remodel to make yourself a better person on the inside…

But who am I kidding? If given such an option, most of us would favor vanity over everything else. At least I'm speaking for myself on that sentiment! As content as I like to pretend I am with my body, I would sign up for broader shoulders in a heartbeat. And if a bigger dick and a toned butt were part of the package too, you certainly wouldn't find me complaining…

– Dewitt

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19 thoughts on “Random Question: Your One Worst Flaw?

  1. If I could change one thing about myself I’d want to be more comfortable in crowded social situations like bars and clubs. I’m great with guys 1 on 1, but I feel so uncomfortable in crowded places. It makes it impossible for me to approach someone.

  2. I’ve tried everything with the exception of viagra, nothing seems to help me stay hard while I take a cock in me 🙁

  3. I guess it would be my skin. I get stressed out I break out. I eat almost anything with fat grams in it I break out. The weather gets to dry I break out. I love how I was the only one in my family to have poor skin.

  4. i wish i were more assertive.
    failing That..
    ..i could want to be a better speaker — my tongue fails me more than i’d like.
    (actually, those two Wants go hand-in-hand, when i think about it.)

  5. I’m proud that none of these comments are focused on physical traits 🙂 I wish I was able to open my heart. As cheesy as that sounds I find it very hard to open up to anyone…especially gay men. I’m a young, somewhat out, attractive guy and have found it increasingly harder to just throw caution to the wind and take the step to let someone in. To compound the problem is the fact that almost every guy I date falls very hard for me and then is heartbroken because I can’t seem to return the love. Maybe I simply haven’t found the right one or simply am “cold”(I’ve been called this). I tell myself that when I find that guy he’ll be the one where I don’t have to question anything and I just know. Regardless, I don’t want to be an old man and look back and find that I’ve never truly fallen in love.
    This is a flaw of mine that I think about often these days…

  6. hey Thomas In regards to the issue about not being able to stay hard while taking it. This is not uncommon. The little blue pill or any other meds will solve this.

  7. I would like to have Diorgasm’s problem. *sigh*
    Thomas’s post reminded me of my little problem. I certainly would like to be able to maintain an erection longer. On the other hand, I think it has given me a better appreciation of the other aspects of lovemaking, so I wouldn’t wish I had never had it.
    If neither of those, then I’d wish I was more outgoing and assertive.

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