You have mixed feelings inside. Sure, this could be hot, but isn't hooking up with you enough? Plus, it's getting close to midnight. You're no Cinderella, but your boss will throw a damn pumpkin at your head if you're late again.
You reply to him, "I think it'd be best if we met 1 on 1 at first and maybe tried that another night." He pleads with you, telling you how much he "needs" it. He even has two guys lined up who'd be interested, so you look at pics of both of the guys after he tells you their screen names. One is totally not your type, but the other one? He's right up your alley.
As you're about to tell the original guy this, he notifies you that the hot third has flaked out. This cycle continues for hours until it's 3AM and you jerk off before collapsing on your bed for a good night's sleep. That was a waste of time.
It's rare that planning a threesome with complete strangers works out. Even if all three of you wind up in one place, the chemistry doesn't always work out. What if you hit it off with one of the guys and the third becomes superfluous? What if you're the one who's not in on the chemistry?
When I've asked people about their hottest threesomes, they usually reference something that happened spontaneously and organically. They were watching porn with friends and go 3-D with the action. They got drunk with two hot jocks in college and wound up blowing them both. The cable guy and the pizza delivery guy came over at the same time, and things went on from there…
Can you plan something as beautiful and hot as a threesome or does it have to happen naturally?
– Dewitt
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random 3somes not so easy… flakes happen 99.4% of the time… so try that statistic over again on top of itself with 2 guys? >.>
either find a couple who does 3somes or get in a couple with someone that you can do 3somes with… way better chances.
why is this blog worthy? >.>
oh yeah, you had standards 😛
It has to happen on it’s own. Planned sex feels so forced and there is no surprise.
When a 3-way just happens it can be really hot! (Not that I have ever had one, just saying.)
Dave
It can happen successfully and be HOT, just unusual. As you say, one often flakes or they don’t like each other, etc.. You have to really luck out to find two guys who are into each other and you and then actually meet up before someone cums at the computer from stroking for hours.
I find it works better to go to a sex party with around 10 guys where few or none of you know each other, then grab two hotties who are both into you and place their hands on each other as you tease them, and then hormones and pheromones take over.
My hottest three way to date was when I lived in Hawaii and was picked up at a club by a couple from New York. Totally spontaneous. Trying to plan a 3 way seems forced, more so when all 3 are total strangers.
I’ve had two planned threesomes (one was actually a foursome), and they were both hot as hell. Actually, I had slept with both of the other two on the one occasion, but they didn’t know each other, but the foursome was originally supposed to be me and this one guy, then he said “let’s go to this other guy’s house where he and another guy will be and you can all tag-team me.” So, I was the one who didn’t know anyone, and I wasn’t really interested in the one guy, but my original guy and the fourth were awesome, plus we were all basically tag-teaming the original guy anyway. Hottest thing ever.
simple, have a bf, and hook up with a 3rd.
I look for threesomes at saunas, not online. It’s much easier there to quickly determine if all three parties are compatible. If not, ya move on swiftly. If ya are, ya have at it right away.
finding ONE serious, non-flake, who isn’t about to spontaneously combust is hard enough… but, hey, if you luck out and find 2 guys that are into you [as well as each other!] all power to ya!
Great arguments for gay marriage, fellas…lol.
…because every str8 marriage is completely monogamous between people who have never had sex wit multiple partners.
Seriously, one has nothing to do with the other.