This could be a touchy subject, but we enjoy heated discussion here on Manhunt Daily: The Blog Of Gay Champions. We think you can handle it.
Some guys want to experience a fantasy wherein someone blackmails them into having sex. Whether it’s situational or via photos or just plain coercion, some men find it hot if they are FORCED (within the context of fantasy and role playing) to surrender themselves to another man’s sexual whims. “Sexual harrassment?” Yep. Would we go as far as calling it “rape?” Indeed. But this is sex play taking place between two consenting adults. There are probably very FEW people out there that want to actually be blackmailed into having sex.
But there ARE more than a few who would find it hot to have the boss threaten to fire you unless you suck him off, or a roommate threaten to post those pics of you masturbating on the Internet unless you let him fuck you. Or your parole officer threatens to send you back to jail if you don’t let him use your every orifice.
What is it about being forced that might be hot for some guys? Is it the surrender of power? Is it wanting to be submissive? Is it hot when choice is taken away during role play? Let us know in the comments.
– J. Harvey
Photo credit: Parole Him
Speaking of your parole officer blackmailing you, check out more from ParoleHim.com after the JUMP:
Looks like good practice for being in the cell block.
Looks like good practice for being in the cell block.
no condoms, no thanks
no condoms, no thanks
Let’s take that fantasy even further and imagine that parole officer forces you to take his high VL poz load up your bare ass against your will. And he does it without even telling you he’s poz! Or maybe you kinda suspect he might be poz and that makes you sorta get into it! Yes, let’s jack this fantasy up to the level of fetishizing unsafe sex. It’s only a fantasy so it doesn’t matter what we portray.
Let’s take that fantasy even further and imagine that parole officer forces you to take his high VL poz load up your bare ass against your will. And he does it without even telling you he’s poz! Or maybe you kinda suspect he might be poz and that makes you sorta get into it! Yes, let’s jack this fantasy up to the level of fetishizing unsafe sex. It’s only a fantasy so it doesn’t matter what we portray.
What if they’re negative? Kinda ruins you’re argument, huh?
I really don’t understand why you people just can’t look at it and say “omg that’s hot”. AGAIN THESE ARE ACTORS THAT KNOW THE RISK. SO STOP RUNNING YOUR MOUTH AND LET OTHERS ENJOY, EVEN IF YOU DON’T
Yea, it is fantasy so I’m going to choose to have the hot parole office be extremely negative because he’s never had sex with anyone, which is why he is so horny…and he pounds me for hours and I love every minute of it.
Why you’d choose to insert disease, fear and negativity into your fantasy is beyond me.
Why would I choose to do that? Let’s just say it was a personal choice. And as many have commented here, personal choices are just that and should be without limitation.
That said, you’re obviously a smart guy, so I want to believe that my reason for raising the spectre of disease transmission–relative to a post promoting an unsafe sex video–isn’t really beyond your grasp.
Why would I choose to do that? Let’s just say it was a personal choice. And as many have commented here, personal choices are just that and should be without limitation.
That said, you’re obviously a smart guy, so I want to believe that my reason for raising the spectre of disease transmission–relative to a post promoting an unsafe sex video–isn’t really beyond your grasp.
Why would I choose to do that? Let’s just say it was a personal choice. And as many have commented here, personal choices are just that and should be without limitation.
That said, you’re obviously a smart guy, so I want to believe that my reason for raising the spectre of disease transmission–relative to a post promoting an unsafe sex video–isn’t really beyond your grasp.
I guess it’s because I don’t see this as “promoting unsafe sex”. Yes, they are not using condoms but there is no sign saying that we should do that. When you see movies with action hero’s driving thru mid-town at excessive speeds does that promote unsafe driving? Does them blowing up buildings promote explosives usage? Does this clip also promote going to jail so that you can get out and and then get hot a parole officer? Does it promote wearing gray wife-beaters, getting tattoos, wearing black socks, and silver bracelets also?
My point is that you took what was presented (pictures) and spun a very negative fear-based fantasy around it and posted it here. That’s fear-mongering. You are a bazillion percent welcome to post whatever you want here of course because it makes for great discussion. My question was more about why you chose to put your focus on fear. I understand your need to raise the specter of disease transmission but you’ve really taken it outside the context of the pictures presented. Porn, like action-adventure movies is all fantasy and we will each take something different from it based upon our filters for the world.
The discussion here was about “blackmail” as a kink. Your post had nothing to do with that.
I guess it’s because I don’t see this as “promoting unsafe sex”. Yes, they are not using condoms but there is no sign saying that we should do that. When you see movies with action hero’s driving thru mid-town at excessive speeds does that promote unsafe driving? Does them blowing up buildings promote explosives usage? Does this clip also promote going to jail so that you can get out and and then get hot a parole officer? Does it promote wearing gray wife-beaters, getting tattoos, wearing black socks, and silver bracelets also?
My point is that you took what was presented (pictures) and spun a very negative fear-based fantasy around it and posted it here. That’s fear-mongering. You are a bazillion percent welcome to post whatever you want here of course because it makes for great discussion. My question was more about why you chose to put your focus on fear. I understand your need to raise the specter of disease transmission but you’ve really taken it outside the context of the pictures presented. Porn, like action-adventure movies is all fantasy and we will each take something different from it based upon our filters for the world.
The discussion here was about “blackmail” as a kink. Your post had nothing to do with that.
I didn’t actually say that this post was promoting unsafe sex. I said it was promoting an unsafe sex video. That is, a video in which a practice–barebacking–that is widely regarded to be high risk and therefore unsafe takes place.
I believe there are many ways of and approaches to stating and re-stating the importance of adhering to safer sex. I believe that the contraction of HIV is something that reasonably should be feared. I also believe that some people–not everyone, of course–might be inclined to prudence if “scared” into considering the potential consequences of imprudence. That was my reason for using the element of fear in what was my fake fantasy.
I agree that my original comment departed from this post’s theme of blackmail as kink. That was completely intentional and I haven’t known that we are necessarily expected to confine our comments specifically to the theme of a given post.
Yes, there are many ways of and approaches to stating the importance of safer sex. If this were a post discussing that, it’d be great and very welcome. Preaching and scare tactics do not work however. Do your research, you’ll see.
I’m all for safe sex but I’m also for not mixing sex and fear. While there is no expectation around what comments anyone posts on a thread there is an implied standard that comments will follow the flow of the topic otherwise you’d have people coming in here and talking about their favorite lube, the fashion choices of the people in the pics, the latest political shenanigans or anything they want. Just because you have an agenda and a soap box doesn’t make it any more (or any less) acceptable.
You’re gonna do what you’re gonna do and no matter what I say (think or feel) that won’t change…nor should it. Safe sex practices are great but not required behavior for everyone. The thing is the constant posts from guys about “I hate tattoos”, “why do they trim their body hair?”, “they’ll catch HIV from barebacking” is all just getting old, quite tiring and doesn’t really add anything to the discussion.
I’m feeling kinda done here so respond if you want or blast me if you need to because one of us has to have the last word, so I’ll let this one be mine: Peace.
Peace to you too, Michael.
Welcome to the club, Michael. You’ve just been “Commented”. It’s a serious affliction, for which there’s no cure, suffered by know-it-all pricks who feel the need to incessantly rant on one topic, attempting to shove it down people’s throats whether they want to hear/read it or not. Our only hope is either severe carpal tunnel syndrome or his service provider pulls the plug. We can only hope…