A funny thing happened on last week‘s edition of Just The Tips. Even though the post had nothing to do with rimjobs, several of you expressed a hesitance towards eating ass. As a proud licker of the hole, you’d think I’d have trouble comprehending your reluctance to dive in, but I totally get where you’re coming from…
Most likely, there’s a mental barrier preventing you from enjoying the act. How can you get over this? Well, practice makes perfect! In a controlled situation, spread your partner’s cheeks, take a deep breath and confront your fear by approaching it head on. Or should I say tongue on?
There are several ways your partner can help with this. For starters, you can take a shower together. Thus will ensure that you know he’s clean down there, which is important to overcoming your mental barrier. Also, it might help if he keeps his hole smooth for the main event. Now, I wouldn’t normally encourage men to shave their nether regions (based on personal preference), but it will help a lot of men get over the “Ew, I have something in my teeth” concept.
In closing, I’d like to say one thing–you don’t have to like performing rimjobs. There are plenty of guys who aren’t even into getting rimmed, and the internet makes it even easier to find them! There are other methods to get your partner relaxed before you fuck him, and we highly recommend utilizing those techniques.
– Dewitt
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Nice post … so do any research as to why some guys don’t want to rim other than guessing it’s an “ew” factor? To me, if you want eaten, then one should shave their hole for much the same reason as we shave our nuts. But that’s me. I’m wondering if there’s a connection between being pee shy and rim shy? Ooo – maybe a new angle 🙂
Nice post … so do any research as to why some guys don’t want to rim other than guessing it’s an “ew” factor? To me, if you want eaten, then one should shave their hole for much the same reason as we shave our nuts. But that’s me. I’m wondering if there’s a connection between being pee shy and rim shy? Ooo – maybe a new angle 🙂
I’ll eat it only after we have had sex enough times for me to see he has good hygiene. Once that’s in place, it’s lickey lickey before i sticky sticky! Santa Claus is going to town!
Well.. it al depend.. I mean, every man is different.. for me , for example, I’m not that into get rimmed, but I love to rim otherone’s ass. As well, for me, if that ass is not hairy is half an ass: I love hairy asses, spread their cheeks and find some hair between them… OMG is heaven!
Of course, I’m also to hairless dudes o with small hair, both balls and ass… but since I found a turn off, a complete dealbreaker, shaved men, at least in this two areas, I would disagree with you on that.
But, hey! Thhat’s just me: Every mind is a world, and for every gay man is another gay man desiring the same as you.
who is the black guy in these pics? He’s hot!
I looooooooove 2 give & recieve rim jobs…I think that its a very sensual turn-on & very important part of forplay & I sooo agree that taking a nice long shower & washing your partner to know that they are FULLY cleaned is definitely a big step b4 taking that route!!!
Rimming is my favorite activity in foreplay! I remember the first time I went from his nuts to his hole. . . . and wondered why I was doing it, but I did it and he went crazy! That was about 3 decades ago. Yesterday was no exception! I was with this great guy and he wanted my cock sliding in his ass and I said, “Not yet!” Then I lifted his legs over his shoulders and dove in! He was moaning and when I winked at him he was more then ready for a hot morning between the sheets!
Oh, the Santa theory! Hmmmmmm!
i never had an irrational fear of rimming ass — i’ve always had a rational fear of pressing my face into dirty ass.
🙂
i feel bad for those guys who had found out, too late into their respective lives, about proper posterior care — no matter how hard they scrub, nowadays, a little stench will usually linger.
🙁
Before I ever had my first man-to-man sex (which was after college), I would sneak those gay mags back to my room…when I would see photos of guys rimming, my first thought was that that was gross and I would never in a million years ever do that…well after I finally “came out” in the mid 1980’s, one of my first partners would rim me…while it felt amazing, he would always want to kiss me afterwards…even though I knew I was clean down there, that still had an “eeewww” factor to me…well, all I can say is “never say never”…flash forward a few years…I absolutely love giving and getting rimjobs (cleanliness being a prerequisite, of course)…as a Top, I could rim a sexy ass for days…and don’t forget that some Tops also enjoy getting rimmed…hey, it feels good! It is rare to find a bottom who will rim…weird…but it is well worth when I do find one…now-a-days, I think I would rather have a sexy ass sitting on my face than on my cock…I am not as “into” fucking anymore…but still absolutely love to rim…woof…nothing hotter than having a hot ass on my face and feeling hot cum spurting onto my furry chest and belly….mmmmm…now that’s hot!
I love rimming and being rimmed. But then I’m also very comfortable with my ass. I think a lot of guys who are uncomfortable with their own ass being even touched (much less eaten or fucked) are also going to be the ones afraid to rim (for many reasons). I think some of that comes from the obvious fact that shit comes from there and we have a lot of baggage around that for sure. I love rimming but if it smells freshly used and not freshly cleaned, I’ll take a pass on that fun. It does take a bit of “manning up” the first time you go for it but when you do it right and see the squirming and squeeling that results from it in your partner, you’ll keep going back for more. The asshole is the most densely concentrated area for nerve endings in the entire body. Work those babies with something as sensitive and textured as a tongue and you have a receipie for amazing pleasure. That alone SHOULD be motiviation for guys to make sure they’ve cleaned the undercarriage before dropping their drawers.
i only getting rimmed by guys that really love to rim.
thus, i don’t myself very often.
Having EATEN both twat and man hole, I will take that sweet man ass any day…the dirtiest ass is still cleaner than any fucking female cunt any god damn day…and as for rimming man hole…fuck that…that’s for pussies…I EAT that sweet tite fucking man ass…then plow fuck it…make it mine…
don’t any of you use dental dams? i’ve never rimmed without a dam, no matter how clean it is, the dental dam keeps it safe. wtf? it’s an asshole, why would you lick it without a little protection?
I wasn’t fond of rimming but tried it out a couple years ago. Then I got giardia. If you don’t know what it is, look it up. I’m not describing it here. Worst month of my life. I’m never trying rimming again because of that.
WTF is a dental dam?
I was sixteen and living in the dorms of a private military school when someone (the 28 y/o dorm advisor) tossed my salad for the first time. Un-fucking believably hot! Over the years, I’ve had both hot and not-so-hot experiences with the backdoor action. The smell, indeed is a dealbreaker, though there are guys out there that like their men…er…”ripe” smelling. And of course there are instances where a few dingleberries are left hanging around the crack hair of ur mate….ugh. Shit happens.
While I enjoy watching my partner squirm in ecstasy while I eat his hole, I don’t know that I can agree any less with your first statement. Cooch is awesome and certainly not dirtier than the dirtiest ass. Maybe you haven’t gone down on a dude who didn’t shower right before meeting you, but I’ll take the average fish taco over the average balloon knot any day. There’s just so much extra there to explore, and it’s the nexus of her sexual energies.
A rectangular sheet of latex developed as a barrier for dental work and co-opted for mouth-to-organ sexual contact. You essentially lube up one side, hold it in place and go to town. The latex is thin enough that some of the sensation transfers through and stimulates the receiver.