If you’re trying to charm the pants off of someone, you probably shouldn’t greet them with the phrase “Hey slut”. This happened to me in the recent past, and it’s not like it was some ironic, funny introduction. The guy then proceeded to ask me when I’d come over and let him fuck my “boy cunt”. A real charmer, right?
And I haven’t even gotten to the worst of it! His next chivalrous move was to call me a “cocksucking faggot whore”, and this was the point where I really snapped at him. Well, at least that’s what I did in my head. In the actual scenario, I just stopped responding and blocked him from ever contacting me.
What’s my point here? Some guys are into degrading dirty talk, while others aren’t into it at all. You should never assume an individual leans one way or the other. Honestly, it doesn’t matter if you plan on making him your bitch. He might want to be treated with a little civility beforehand…
– Dewitt
Photo credit: Extra Big Dicks
To check out Logan Drake and Mario Costa getting slutty, follow the JUMP:
I expect civility. I don’t think I’ve ever been called anything by a guy except my name when we first met. Being a top, I tend to go for slightly submissive bottoms, so they occasionally want me to call them names (I don’t enjoy degrading someone, even if they want it).
BTW, the guys in the photos – fucking hot, especially the tops cock, and the bottoms ass!
I don’t think that’s a man with a dick. It’s a dick with a man!
All experts say the risk of spreading HIV through kissing is exceptionally rare.
Fozzhat…I’m just totally at a loss for words…WTF?!?!?! First of all, where did that come from…and secondly no no…VERY WRONG!
OMG…I can’t believe what that dude said about “safe” barebacking. Tell me this is a joke.
BTW…those guys are sooooo cute.
these idiots can’t be serious… I think fuzz and whackadoo are joking.
I thought this post was about guys talking down to other dudes during sex, not about barebacking. In any case, if a man talks to you like that during sex, he’s been watching way too much porn (either straight or gay).It’s all about being in the mood and being able to do role play.
I too, like Dak1975, expect civility. I am a human being. I expect to be treated as one. I’ve never understood why someone would want to degrade a sexual partner.
As far as this HIV comment… Wow! Some very misleading remarks! My doctor is one of the leading Doctors in the US on HIV. He says that kissing is highly unlikely for spreading the virus. It’s a SEXUAL virus. Received thru anal and vaginal sex.
jajajaja just a hype…tell that to my dead friend and sick boyfriend…
That’s right, feed those trolls.
Dirty talk is one thing – degradation is another level of sliminess. Like the reverse of the guy who insists so strongly that you tell him you love his cock/ass/mouth/organ-of-the-moment that you can’t enjoy yourself. If I’m going to form words (incoherent grunting and moaning’s fine) during sex, they’re probably to instruct my partner, rather than provide needless validation (or abuse).
the other guy isn’t even Christian Wilde. On the bottom of the pictures it says “Logan Drake”
OMG, I don’t know where some of you are getting your information, but BB sex is so dangerous, and there is no information that kissing passes the HIV virus! it is a blood borne disease! wow
The guys are very hot!!!. Dirty talk can have it’s place, but as a rule I’m not into it. To start a conversation with a stranger as discribed is totally wrong.
For Fozzhat, Whackadoo, and Tropontary…OMG I sure hope you don’t get educated in a very unfortunate way. With your lack of education you are putting yourselves at risk. Worse yet, by spreading this terrible missinformation you put others at risk. Do as you wish to yourself, but reporting this horse shit is totally unacceptable and very irrisponsible.
Get educated at aidsinfonet.org
HIV is a body fluid diesease, not just blood. As for saliva, it is next to impossible to get it from that.
Exactly I’ve had so many guys act like that and I just say “its confidence not arrogance… Open a dictionary!!”
Degrading and humiliating talk is a very hot element of s&m play. Most guys who are submissive love to be talked to that way, and such talk can be a very useful tool for helping a submissive guy get into the appropriate mindset. Many submissives love playing with a guy who presents an arrogant and demanding attitude. There’s nothing immoral about it, assuming that the other guy enjoys that sort of play. If he doesn’t, talking that way is vulgar, disrespectful, and inappropriate. I would never use it on a guy who didn’t give me indications that he wanted it, but the guys who do want it get over the moon when it’s done right.
i am disturbed by the delusionally misinformed messages here…
relating to this update’s real topic, I don’t like terms like mangina, manhole, mancunt….i don’t mind dirty talk, but preferably with a fuck buddy or bf…..
I find this vaguely appropriate: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JUz75nc_JRw
Also, what Bohemond said. Some people like that sort of thing, but it’s best to be prudent and keep it out of general conversation.
But hey, some people are just wankers. What are you going to do?
Also, “boy cunt” is an absolutely revolting term. 😐
Back to the bois … OMG I’m in love with the first pic after the jump — beautiful boiscaping and love that uncut cock just sitting there … again I’m noticing we never see oral beyond the head in the mouth … I want to see full deep throat to the pubes action … enjoy the full deep fucking action too … but OMG that first pic after the jump!
a lady in the street and a freak in the sheets!!!!!!
Where are the moderators of this page? Why are the messages supporting barebacking still not erased?
Apolo, Why erase them? They aren’t directly offensive and erasing them would border over censorship. Why not let them stay so people could see how stupid/ignorant some people are out there, so that maybe they will think twice the next time they want to mess around without a condom.
I was so taken with the guys I forgot what this was ment to be about LOL
dirty talk CAN be fun as long as your both into it
and how did some guy come up with that on HIV/AIDS ? Sounds as smart as the idea “sex with a virgin will cure you”.
ps I got a BIG COCK no way a virgin could take me!!!
You all need to stop taking troll bait. These posts are so blatantly obvious (you would think) but some of you continue to bite. :\
As for the original blog post, can’t say I’ve ever been put in that situation. Talking dirty can be fun with the right guy but greeting someone like that? Yeah…no.
“boy cunt”, or for that matter any other term that likens an ass to a vagina (man pussy, et al) is absolutely disgusting. In my opinion.
I mean, I’m trying to hook up with a guy, not someone that thinks they have a vagina. If I wanted that, I’d pick up a chick.
Explain troll bait and please hurry……..!
Dewitt please keep this blog open.
A while ago some friends and I were at a club in Copenhagen when a very good-looking man, we’d been secretly checking out, approached us with the question: “Does anyone like to get fucked by a big dick?”
Needless to say we were all speechless and just stared at him. Why would anybody think this was a good way to make contact? In his defense I have to say that he was clearly drunk and it was around closing time. I guess he was desperate to score and in his drunken state probably lost most of his inhibitions and savoir-vivre.
Poor guy, we all declined the offer. Then again the group consisted of 7 friends and even if one of us were interested there’d be NO WAY he could take him up on such an offer in front of the rest of the group 🙂 For starters the question was NOT directed at one person in particular, it was clear the hunk only wanted to get off and at that stage in the game didn’t particularly care who the recipient was. NOT EXACTLY FLATTERING!
NO! Dirty talk does NOT excite me at all! I think I would find it distracting and it can easily slip into something insulting and disrespectful. Luckily I’ve not experienced it.
I’m not going to touch those idiotic bareback comments. I just wonder where they came from since the topic at hand has NOTHING to do with safe or unsafe sex.
Above is a comment posted by Fozzhat, Guys, look at his 6th sentence and then you will see how puerile his brain really is.
Perhaps Rob you have something about “biting”. That aside, Fozzhat there are some silly little twits out there that would believe your comments and go off with their bums in the air asking for a bowel full of cum after a night on crystal.
Now Fozzart, explain your comment to them and particularly to their parents as they watch their sons putrid flesh rot and their bodies leak into the sheets of a hospital bed.
About the dirtiest I’ve ever gotten (with words) is “oh baby, fuck my hot ass with that big cock.” I’m mostly a moaner and a groaner.
As for the irresponsible comments about BBing, I’m inclined to believe it may very well be a gay-hater that thinks spreading misinformation about unsafe sex is just one way to “kill off the gays.” Yes, there are gay men that still have unsafe sex, but they’re not so misinformed as to advocate unsafe sex for the masses.
I agree heartily with Bobby in Seattle. I have noticed , a while back, that in one of the manhunt posts on the folsom street fair, the poster spoke of how disgusting it was and how he understood clearly why we were all going to he’ll because of it. It wasn’t the opinion on the fair that struck me (to each his own), it was the hell bit that freaked me out. I have seem this happen in other sites before, that were targeted by bigoted groups to disrupt or misinform people. I wouldn’t want to see it happen here.
Regarding barebacking, people are entitled to not care, not use a confomn because it’s a personal choice. But you can’t discuss the link between barebacking and HIV anymore. Science has cleared all doubts about that.
those BB comments are obviously from same person who got hiv and trying to make the rest of the world get it, so that he doesn’t feel alone.
dewitt, can’t u block his IP address?
Good lord…back on topic boys. Thanks for sharing your experience Dewitt. A lot of guys could learn something from it. Many guys have only one gear and assume everyone is into what they’re into and that we’re all just dying to hear about it. That tells you a lot about them however and that’s really what you’re after. If the dude is so self-absorbed to assume that you’re immediately into whatever he’s into, well then that really saves you a lot of time because you can quickly eliminate him (as you did). With everything available to us online, some guys are really losing their social skills. “Oh that didn’t work with him…next…” and on it goes. “Nice dick” becomes an opening line (email) because of it. Everything we encounter is sped up because everyone is just working the numbers. If I send a quick email to 20 guys, probably at least 1 will respond positively. Unfortunately that playing 20 guys at once leaves most of us empty handed because we’re just waiting for the bigger, better deal rather than dealing with the hand we’re dealt and working it.
In other thoughts based upon the above, perhaps there needs to be some sort of flagging put in place here and if someone gets flagged for “disturbing the peace” too many times then they could be banned from the blog. It’s a little sad where some of these guys continually need to go for attention (and it’s usually from their own fears being projected onto your stuff). Sad. Whatever. 🙁 Part of being a part of community means behaving or being removed from the community.
Ohh my does it look like what:-)
Apolo = Wrong
Oh thank you Manhunt for removing the comments posted by Fozzat & Wackadoo!!!!
Fantastic to see.
I can really get into dirty talk, but don’t love it as a general rule. Depends on the other man. To me “cunt” can be a hot ‘dirty’ word, but not always. It’s hot if it’s more of an in the moment thing, you know?
And on the topic of the boys in the pictures? HOT. I’m not always attracted by uncut dicks, but that one is absolutely beautiful. And both boys are good looking. Yes please! 🙂
First off, his COCK is sweet…beautiful actually…second, the bottom boi…bless his heart and ass…take it bitch!, and third, I prefer to be called ManWhore…
Can I get some of the vitamins the top takes? I need all the help I can get!
@Michael: “Trolling” basically describes the act of posting off-topic or inflammatory material to steer the original post off its main course while evoking some desired emotion from the audience. Suffice it to say, a troll is someone who wastes other peoples’ time on purpose for their own amusement.
@John: Heh…I don’t think you took that the right way but ok! Biting was used to reference the act of taking the troll’s bait. It’s like fishing…except you’re the fish.
I need someone to hold and kiss after my 20 year break up. I am 44 but fit and keep myself well .