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157 thoughts on “Have Sex With Your Favorite Porn Star.”

1. Now…do they have any Buy 5, Get the 6th Free deals going?

2. So, this is a totally serious question: Chicago gets a LOT of porn stars (and non-“stars”) that I have thought about “renting”. Is there a FAQ somewhere on the proper etiquette for approaching the escort regarding fantasies/favorite sexual acts? Seriously, I could get into a rimming session for the entire hour…given the right guy!

3. Fucking prostitutes.

4. I’m not morally opposed to it. I sell my heart and soul to The Man 9 to 5 in an office to make a living, so who I am to judge if a person wants to use their God given talents, in this case their amazing bodies and array of sexual techniques, to pay the rent man. I probably won’t part take any time soon, because I certainly don’t make hiring-escort-money and I’m perfectly content as it is, but you do you, boo.

   Now, one thing I would say though, I was reading on the Hookies website–love that name for an award show by the way–interviews with the contestants, and they were asked what was the craziest thing they were asked to do and I was surprised how many of them mentioned prospective patrons asking them to engage in scatplay.

   I get finding someone on the open market into that kind of thing probably isn’t going to be very common–at least one can hope; however, I was surprised how many people into scat had disposal income to spend on an escort. I’ll acknowledge my own ignorance in assuming that those two things did not overlap very often–though, I guess if you want something bad enough, you’ll fork over what you have to get it.

5. If I lived in his city, I would be a regular customer of Tommy Defendi.

6. Sorry Dewitt, I still would never hire an escort. I have too much respect for myself to spend my hard earned money on a common whore. If these men had any real self respect themselves, and not the fake kind they put on for show, they would get a real job. Knowing that any of these men will sleep with any kind of man no matter how disgusting as long as they open up their wallet is the ultimate turn off. It’s not something to be respected, it’s not something to be admired, and it is something to be ashamed of. If you thing I am wrong, please find me the parent out there whose grand dream for their child is to make their living on their back in a hotel.

7. How’s the weather up there on your high horse?

8. Shawn Wolfe….. oh lord….

9. I always say the same thing, and then I change my mind while Trenton Ducati is fucking me hard the ass.

10. I’m married to my very own porn star and he is free every night.. sigh.. slurp

11. would like to hire angel rock

12. I can’t imagine ever trying to perform with these guys…the pressure of being with these guys.

13. I did it as a little fantasy fulfillment with a pornstar. It was a one time fantasy thing that I enjoyed tremendously but would probably not do again. I had no trouble getting dick, but just wanted to play with no strings. I hope I never see an ad for Killian James or Danny Harper because I would be seriously tempted to swipe my platinum AmEx card right down either of their cracks.

14. Just because you’re so far up on that high horse of yours doesn’t mean you need to look down on those of us who might want to indulge and cross something off of our respective bucket lists.

15. Do you want them to email you, call you or show up at your door?

16. That is not a counterpoint.

17. What about Jesse Ares and Adam Killian? Add Marc Dylan to the list.

18. OMFG.. all of my fav guys are on there! Why cant I win the lottery?!?!?!?! lol

19. How are they with body image? I’m heavier, I would worry about feeling like shit. I can rock it, but a guy being disgusted because I don’t have a six pack… Like is that a thing? Can they turn down people that don’t fit some sort of body type?

20. Angel Rock, Boomer Banks, Marcus Isaacs, Tommy Defendi, Trenton Ducati.. Time? Place?

21. What do you mean favorite porn STAR… as in single choice? There’s just no way! I’d need at LEAST 3 cause I couldn’t leave the other two out. Maybe not all at once, but if that’s the way it worked out, I won’t complain! 😉

22. You have to ask them. Some are fine with it and others will (most of the time) politely decline.

23. some cute ones here ..tempted yes ..but unless your damien crosse ..or tiger tyson ..ill never ever pay for it ..

24. some of these guys have additional jobs as well.

25. There are more (e.g., Eli Lewis) but I’m sure it was time-consuming to include everybody.

26. Didn’t know who Danny Harper was but now I do!

27. I was kind of hoping for comments like this. I’ll try to add a few others over the next few days, but it was hard (no pun intended) to remember everyone.

28. You have a skewed view of sex workers. Please consider toning down your judgment and accepting that this *is* a “real job”.

29. I’ll echo what another commenter said. The right escort will make you feel like you’re the sexiest man in the world for however long you’ve hired him.

30. And, actually, I’ve heard of plenty of parents who are happy for their child no matter what career path they choose. One model was actually telling me that his mother was proud he found a way to avoid the 9-5 grind and do what he loves.

    So if that’s your bottom line, everything else you’ve said is irrelevant. The truth might hurt, but you ain’t telling it.

31. Again, not that I know from personal experience, but I imagine a good escort will do whatever it takes to make you comfortable enough to perform… And if you can’t perform? It’s unlikely they’ll hold a grudge against you (though it’s equally unlikely they’ll give you a refund).

32. Blargh! That wasn’t a response to you, CockConqueror. It was meant for TheTruthHurts.

33. Yes sir to ty

34. So you can get to Heaven if you simply sin with your hand while WATCHING these people online or on your TV, but not if you actually get the balls (and money) to meet one of them? Got it!
    I had no idea there were so many escorts as seen here.
    Congrats Dewitt for shedding light on another aspect of the male fantasy (and the hypocrisy of said fantasy)
    *hooker kithes*

35. Is a being a nurse a job? is being a youtube personality a job? Is an attorney who represents the guilty & innocent a job? Is being a porn blogger a job? Is being a full-time student a job? Is exchanging your time, and presence and offering adult sexual activities a job? Is being a store clerk a job? Is being a laboratory assistant a job?

    Please define job because I don’t see a difference. Do a task first then get compensated for your time and effort.

36. I’ve hired a few porn stars, but only one on this list, and they’ve all been pretty amazing. I’m not the most fit guy, but they made me feel comfortable and besides the great sex, we had great conversation as well. I always check the escort review sites as well to see if others have had positive experiences before I whip out the credit card. I have a few more on my personal list that are not on this one, but when they travel to NY or LA, and as long as I’m not dating anyone, I’ll be fulfilling those fantasies.

37. If you have any recommendations for people I should add, please let me know!

38. It’s disheartening to read some of these comments. I always like to think that the LGBTQ community is a bit more open minded, but then I see comments about how these guys are whores and the people who hire them are bad people. It makes me sad. These people have chosen this as their career and the people who hire them are making choices. It’s fine not to agree with these choices or not make the same choices, but attacking them based simply on the fact that they are sex workers is really close minded.

    Also, how can you make assumptions about these people? Sex work, whether it is escorting, exotic dancing, etc., is a valid choice for career and we need to work to remove the stigma.

39. I would jump at the chance to hire Shawn Wolf if I had the money. He’s my dream guy

40. Wow. Sorry you have such a need to be so judgmental.

41. Why does there need to be a counterpoint to your judgments? They’re yours. Our opinion of them is pointless.

42. If they turn you down for something like that, just know that it has more to do with their need to judge you than it does with you. Be happy with yourself and don’t let others peoples opinion of you matter at all. Some will love your look and others will not. Who’s opinion do you accept? Yours is the only on that you can change and the only one that matters to you.

43. You rock, Eric. Well said.

44. I’ll admit that it would be kind of a fantasy to hire an escort some day (Hey Ian Parker and Duncan Black!) and I don’t have any judgements against people that do. I just wouldn’t be able to get out of my head that it’s just a job to him and he wouldn’t really be interested in me physically or emotionally.

    Though I definitely acknowledge that this attitude is coming from my own insecurities about myself.

45. I don’t judge these guys at all, super handsome, sexy and hey, if you get paid for something as fun as sex, get to ti.
    My judgment then deep down inside, once I look at it carefully is about me; I just, I think I’m a handsome, adorable, funny, quirky, successful catch… I shouldn’t have to pay to get banged… so yeah, handsome guys… maybe i’ll run into one of them at a coffee bar and they’ll see me and say, wow, who is that guy?! 😉 Until then, I’ll just keep on keeping on… HA!

46. Right. Like a bunch of queens are going to pass up the chance to be bitchy and judgmental.

47. My first inclination is to jump back at you and call you a complete moron. But the reality is, this is how most people think about prostitutes. Most of the for-hire men you’ll meet have bigger plans for themselves. They don’t all fit the mold you’ve illustrated.

    I had a bit of an unusual experience experience with a for-hire guy. I’ve never paid for sex, though I met a guy without knowing who they were or what they did for a living. At the time he was working in a cafe in NY. I’d stop by every morning on the way to work, and he’d never charge me for coffee. He was really hot, really sweet and had a good swagger. Eventually we hooked up. It was a couple weeks after that I found out he was paid to have sex with men. And for his age, he made a lot of money. It was a huge turn-on at first, but t I quickly learned that I couldn’t get too emotionally attached. Which was fine, he was not looking for a long-term thing anyway.

    Though, ten years later, he’s very successful and has his own marketing business. None of it was smooth sailing, but there’s no way anyone could call this man a “common whore.” And since then, what I’ve found is that many for-hire men intend for it to only be temporary.

48. Jerking it to this and this:
    https://soundcloud.com/thehottestnewsingles/mariah-carey-feat-wale-you

49. Any parent that is proud to have raised a child who grew up to sell their ass or cock to the highest bidder should never have had children to begin with. NO ONE looks at their newborn baby and says “I hope he grows up to be a hooker”. These parents should love their whoring sons anyway, because a parent is not a pick and choose job. But any mother or father who says they are actually PROUD of a child being a prostitute is lying to themselves.

50. If you accept money for sex, you are a common whore, by the very definition of the word. Sugar coat it all you want.

51. You forgot to add Kurtis Wolfe and Tyler Wolf from Randy Blue! Also I believe Sean Zevran is also escorting now as well, and she’s a picky bitch too.

52. What is wrong with judgment? I hate to break it to you, but every person judges everyone else. I fully admit to judging these whores, and that IS what they are. Here’s the key however. If I were to meet any of them in public would I spit on them? No. I treat people with respect, regardless of what I may think about them or how I may feel about them internally.

53. How is calling a spade a spade “close minded”? These men accept money for sex; they are WHORES by definition.

54. Is anyone else experiencing some weird thing on this site where your mouse is highlighting text automatically or random every time you move it? Or is it just me?

55. Does anyone know if the guys from Corbin Fisher or Sean Cody are available? I’ve been trying to find that out for awhile. Thank you.

56. I’m sure that you mean it in the kindest way. I’m sure you have a lot to say about stay-at-home spouses also. Kinda fits the same definition… as long as you don’t sugar coat it with that whole humanity thing.

57. I would love to know how you equate a stay at home spouse with someone who sells their ass for money.

58. Boston Miles, possibly?

59. Really? You don’t see it? Because the similarities are striking.

60. I’m guessing that the relative paucity of people into scat play on the open market drives people to need to pay for it, and they therefore save their pennies in order to indulge their fetish.

61. The style of guys you overwhelmingly show are not my style with the sole exception of Sean Xavier. Tatts, Beards, Hairy are not my style. Smooth, Beardless and Clean is more what I like.

62. Do parents have grand dreams of their children to work in a supermarket? As a dog-washer? Soldier? etc etc? Stupid argument. Parents want happy children. Full Stop.
    Just because you don’t need the escorts’ services does not mean the shy, nervous, inexperienced, deemed-lesser-attractive, disabled, and regular people don’t. Providing an outlet for “any kind of man” actually takes A LOT of self respect from the decent service providers, and I doubt most of these guys are “common whores”. Having worked for places providing these services (though not as a worker, I’m too old and unattractive!), I see the positives of this every day.

    BTW, what is your chosen career path, and are Mummy and Daddy proud?

63. I never understood escorts that turn down guys because of looks. It makes no sense??? If I was bloody good looking I wouldn’t be hiring your ass as you would sleep me with for free. It must be hobby if you are turning overweight, old guys down unless that is their fetish in which case it is still a hobby.

64. No I don’t so please explain.

65. I’m a doctor. Yes my parents are very proud. Your argument is invalid that whoring yourself out to “any kind of man” takes “a lot of self respect”. It actually takes quite the opposite to be able to sell yourself to anyone with a credit card without a care about your own self worth. If you really believe it is such a respectable “career”, have you thought about introducing your children or parents to this wonderful career path? Or is it something you would never want them to do?

66. You need to learn how to fucking debate. An argument isn’t invalid just because YOU disagree with it.

67. Doctors who are sellouts or “whores” for medical companies aside… (and I’m not insinuating you are)
    The sex workers I have known and worked with are amazing people, who yes, do it for the money and the work/life balance it gives them to study, and are also great at making others relax and feel good about themselves. They are not drug dependent or fucked up mentally and my argument cannot be invalid because it is based on experience. Doing a good job and being pleased with your efforts towards others at whatever your career is takes a high level of self respect. They have to present themselves well and look after themselves to be successful.
    Some people are not cut out to be doctors, or work 9-5. A lot of people are not cut out for sex work. There are many jobs out there that fit the many different people in the world, as well as many different people who need them to do that job. It’s part of the world.

68. Thank you Dewitt

69. And kudos to you for the effort and dedication you put in to become what you are and wanted to be.

70. Sorry, forgot to answer your last question.

    I don’t have children, but if any of my family were in that industry, I may not “want” them to do it, but if they are truly happy, making good money and living ok and not suffering psychologically or abusing drugs etc, then I would be happy for them that they have made something of what they have to offer (and why is one’s endowment or looks or fit body any less of an asset than one’s brain or other skill?) for as long as they chose to do it.

    It is, after all THEIR life and choice, not mine, but I see the choice as valid.

71. I hire escorts and I am much hotter than most. They fulfill my fantasies without judgement which is what this thread is full of. And every escort is different. Some DO pick and choose. Others do it as a way to fulfill a fan’s fantasy.

72. As an actual stay at home spouse, I can see the similarities. It’s companionship,emotional support and sex, and in return you get financially supported. Of course love is also in the equation for us, but I understand the comparison.
    Maybe as a woman the idea doesn’t worry me, though, as we are told our bodies should be used as commodities from a pretty early age. I know quite a few former escorts, and although there are many who ended badly, it would have happened whatever job they were doing…usually drugs were the problem, not the escorting.
    I know others who did it for a few months to a few years when they were younger, then got out and now have perfectly “normal” lives. More power to them. There are quite a few jobs I do judge, but escorting isn’t one of them.
    Thetruthhurts, I actually do have a son, and I’d love and support him no matter what he did, as long as he was happy and safe
    Dewitt, love your blog, and love these men. Pity I have the wrong equipment, as both Duncan black and tommy defendi are fucking hotness personified.
    And apologies for being the token female on here. There are more of us than you’d think who read and love your blog though.

73. If all involved are consenting, unimpaired adults, not causing harm, then they can do what they like.
    I agree with you 100%.

74. I googled WHORE, and this is the first thing to come up:

    noun

    derogatory

    1.

    a prostitute.

    IT is the derogatory way you are referring to them that is objectionable here. “Whore” is not a job title, “prostitute” is. Your choice to use a particular word is colouring your argument.

75. You have absolutely NO need to apologize! I’m glad to have this refreshing alternate perspective, and I’m equally glad to know we have female readers out there.

76. I did not say anything about the parents of hookers loving or supporting their children. Those are two things that are absolute (or should be) for any parent. BUT, if your son came to you and said “Mom, I’ve decided to sell my body. I have a few men lined up who will pay me to suck their dicks, to fuck their ass, to fuck my ass”, would you be PROUD or would you try to talk to him about finding another profession?

77. Someone who has a valid argument does not need to resort to swearing. You need to learn to debate. You also did not answer my question. If being a hooker is such a respectable career would you want your mother to become a prostitute?

78. You just proved my point exactly. You would NOT want your loved one to become a hooker. You may support them, but you do not WANT them to make that choice. So part of you agrees with my point, otherwise you would want them to choose to sell their body. As far as your point that doctors are “whores” to drug companies, for starters there is a world of difference between being an ACTUAL whore selling your ass to anyone with a credit card and being a well educated professional that listens to presentations about new medications or treatments from a pharmaceutical company and evaluating that research with a critical eye to determine if it is in the best interests of your patients.

79. Ah yes, the great “Google”, a reliable source of information because the internet knows everything. Let me help you with an actual dictionary definition:
    Whore
    noun
    1.
    a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.
    verb (used without object), whored, whor·ing.
    2.
    to act as a whore.
    3.
    to consort with whores.
    verb (used with object), whored, whor·ing.
    4.
    Obsolete . to make a whore of; corrupt; debauch.

    Substitute man for woman and this is the definition of what these men are.

80. Oh, come the fuck on! I will swear when I want to fucking swear. It doesn’t change the fact that an argument isn’t invalid because YOU disagree with it.

    I don’t feel the need to answer your question, because I think it’s fucking irrelevant. Your opinion is rooted in this puritanical idea that selling your body is inherently “bad”, when as others have pointed out, it’s just as respectable as selling any other service.

    By the way, you’re not helping your argument by asking the same question 10,000 times. If that’s all you have to offer, please move the fuck on.

    Fuck. Fuck. Fuck.

    Is your mother proud that you’re a judgmental fuck-wad?

    Fuck. Fuck. Fuck.

    Is your mother proud that you’re debating on a fucking gay porn blog?

    Fuck. Fuck. Fuck.

    Is your mother proud that you still haven’t learned to present a decent fucking argument?

81. I live in Manhattan, where the guys are a fickle bunch at best. I’m very average looking, over 40, and a HIV-positive total bottom with a kinky streak, the kiss of death as far as meeting guys here seems to be concerned. For my 50th birthday this year, I saved up and rented myself a guy that could easily be included in the list above. It was one of the best experiences I have ever had. For a couple of hours, I was with a guy that I could probably never get otherwise who was being completely attentive to what I wanted to do without making me feel guilty or needing to apologize for asking him to do it, like can be the case under more normal circumstances. Not only did I feel good due to what we were doing, but the fact that he was genuinely enjoying himself as well kind of blew my mind and made the experience even better. I plan to do it again next year.

82. Congratulations on being a duplicitous fuck-wad who treats people with “respect” despite thinking they are pieces of shit, deep down inside!

    You really sound like a great, virtuous human being.

    Much better than all of these so-called “whores”.

83. Right…but is your mom proud of you if you just sleep around for free?

    Also…escorts can and do turn people down. It isn’t a case of: oh you have money, but I find you revolting but you have money so I guess I have to.

    also, you suck and your opinion isn’t truth. It’s just your opinion. I mean…did you’re parents look at you as an infant and say: “I hope he grows up to be suck dick” but they love you anyway even though you do. We also aren’t here to live out the grand dream of our parents so…

84. So…you’re just two-faced.

    I’m so glad I don’t actually know you.

85. Actually my great grandmother was a prostitute. When she emigrated to America from Finland, she did everything available to her to support her family. I have nothing but respect for what that woman did, and you know what, she had a hell of a good time and amazing stories to tell from it. You can judge, that’s totally fine. And nothing anyone says will ever change what you think. But…holy crap you’re frighteningly self righteous.

    The fact that you use ‘common whore’ to describe people as though you are a paradigm of goodness and purity. I also find your claim to be Dr. incredibly off putting. The expression of your opinion over and over on here is so puzzling as this entire blog is centered around celebrating whores and sex workers. That’s like, what we do here…that and you know…the whole blog being an adjunct to a site dedicated to finding CASUAL SEX.

86. OMFG you’re a Dr.!
    Oh…wow.

87. what if I just get taken to dinner and a movie?

88. Chances are….his mother doesn’t even know he’s gay.

89. Well good to know you are modest lol( not being bitchy, good to see gay guys with confidence)
    but why not find someone who has the same interests/fetishes you do. Thereby avoiding judgement and saving a bit more money. With the amount of social apps out there I don’t think it is that difficult and you can still maintain some anonimity. It just defies logic to pay for something you wouldn’t need to unless you get off from that sort of thing. If it is a job/sex work the prime determinant should be the pay, not looks. I cannot imagine offering a service and deciding I would service certain people and not others based on looks, unless it was just hobby, it seems really unprofessional.

90. To be honest as popular as Truthhurts is I have to agree with him on this. I cannot imagine no parent wishing their child to be an escort but as a parent you would have to support their decision regardless. By definition a sex worker is a whore but obviously today the word carries negative connotations beyond just servicing clients. I think the stigma as well as disclosure does mean that these guys can charge higher rates and so in that respect helps them but I do believe it is necessary in society. Sex is such a vital part of people’s lives and soldiers who have lost limbs serving their country deserve to have feel pleasure with feeling they have to comprimise. So could we please refrain from calling them whores as some of them are actually making people’s lives a lot easier.

91. I would ask if he was being safe and had anyone to look out for him if something went awry. If he was doing it purely because he had no other way to earn money then I’d lend him money. But if he was happy doing it, if it was something that fulfilled him? Yeah, he’d go with my blessing.
    On the other hand if he was a lawyer who was defending the Catholic Church or working in one of the immigration detention centres (aka concentration camps, Australian style) or taking up a job working for Monsanto, big tobacco, or a far right political party, I’d probably stop speaking to him.
    We all have different things we find abhorrent, escorting for me isn’t one of them.

92. Thanks Dewitt! I was actually put onto this blog by a gay friend who knew my taste in porn, he said you tended to feature all of the best stuff.
    He was right, for what it’s worth.

93. I really need/have to win the lottery at least 2. I would be in a 3 way with Christopher Daniels and Trenton Ducati. WOOF I would die a happy and well laid man!

94. Yes, name calling is definitely the way to drive your point home. Can you honestly say you do not judge people yourself when you are clearly judging me? At the end of the day, it comes down to how you treat other people, regardless of what you think about them. I do not need nor do I seek your approval. The fact that you are getting so riled up and resorting to frivolous insults makes me think you doth protest too much and part of you at least sees the validity of my point.

95. Your rejection as an anonymous name on the internet means nothing to me. I am brutally honest, which often gets confused for other things when people cannot handle hearing facts they want to ignore.

96. You said a lot while avoiding my question. I asked if you would be PROUD of your son for getting paid to have sex with strangers, not if you would support him if he chose to do so.

97. You can swear all you want. That’s the beauty of freedom of speech. It also makes you come across as quite unintelligent when writing “fuck” a dozen times and throwing out insults is the best you can do to convince me of your position. Also, please find me the individual who thinks that hookers are just as respectable as doctors, engineers, artists, business owners, etc..

98. That has to do with anything because…?

99. I am. And “wow” is indeed what most people think about my profession given that I went to school for 24 years to dedicate my career to healing children.

100. Insulting a person is the last resort of the individual who has no valid argument to make on their own.

101. I never said that consenting adults cannot engage in whatever activities they want in the bedroom. I fully support the legalization of prostitution because at least if it were regulated you could keep both sides safe and also tax the income. But do not expect me to respect it as a career choice.

102. basically you need to follow the lead of the escort you hire. Always treat initial contact with discretion as you are hiring for time only….but usually plenty of opportunities to arrange fantasies

103. I have no problems at all admitting to the fact that I have, in the past, hired an escort on at least a monthly basis. I basically avoid those that charge an outrageous fee to capitalize on their “fame”. When I was in Los Angeles I hired @ one escort a month for over 2 years…many I hired more than once. It became so much easier and cost effective to hire someone where I knew what would be happening and there was none of the guess work. If you do your homework and look at the men, you can usually find out ahead of time who is someone you can count on. In addition to the reviews (which can be faked) keeping an eye on listings will tell you who is long term and who is in it just for a quick buck. The men who do this long term seem to really are about what they do and are very professional. I would also like to say that 90% of them are able to provide you exactly what you are looking for. I find it so much easier to shop around, find who i want to spend an hour servicing and bending over for than waiting around while everyone does this or that. My way, i get one AWESOME fuck a month and then anything elese that happens is icing on the cake. And, honestly, if you treat them with respect, they are, by and large, very nice men. i have several friends that I have kept in touch with that I initially hired as an escort. I only hire when traveling as I have not found men in Austin that I felt were just right for me…however, that may change now that Kurtis Wolfe and John Magnum are here. If i were in NY, LA or Chicago, i would still be shopping for my monthly hot cock.

104. @TheTruthHurts. I wouldn’t want my son working on a fishing or crabbing boat on the Bering Sea either. In fact I’d rather if he were for hire if those were the choices. Just because you think or say something doesn’t make it a fact. You’ve voiced an opinion and really not much else. At best you come off as a judgmental fuck and not much more. I think the only argument on that will come mostly from you.

105. Also there are a few other professions I would put way below an escort. I’d start with most of Wall Street despite the fact that my 401K is kicking ass.

106. Thank you! After going away and thinking on it for a bit, your second paragraph is exactly why TheTruthHurts’ posts were seeming hypocritical to me. If there’s such a dislike for people who do sex work, how can you truly enjoy a site like this? Porn and escorting are pretty closely related, they are both about being paid to have sex, so why is one just fine and not the other.
     I think there’s some pretty major cognitive dissonance at work…

107. There’s very few jobs I’d be proud of someone doing. So no, I wouldn’t be particularly proud if my son grew up to be an escort. But I’m also not proud of the job my husband did for 13 years (working for a defence contractor) or the job I still do one day a week (working for a big retail company with majorly dodgy ethics) If he enjoys the work he does, he’ll be doing better than I ever did.

108. I should have NO influence on what any of my family chooses to do. If they want to be sex workers, I want them to be sex workers. If they want to be doctors, I want them to be doctors. I just want them to be the best they can be at it and be proud of themselves and their achievements. I would not want them to lose their self-worth or self-esteem (which unfortunately I’ve done on occasion in “respectable” jobs) or sell themselves short (pun partially intended).
     The doctors/whores to drug company reference was more about selling out and taking kickbacks and possible compromising their morals (and others) which I guess you are saying an “actual whore” would be doing. And in this case it is not always in the patients’ best interest. It’s just filling their bank accounts.
     Even in normal, respectable and acceptable careers we can debase ourselves.

109. Hookers ARE just as respectable. There are plenty of individuals that are saying that! You just are not accepting that and are trying to turn their arguments against them.

110. For someone so bothered by escorting, you seem to be spending an awful lot of time on a website mostly about porn. Just sayin.’

111. For someone so bothered by escorting, you seem to be spending an awful lot of time on a website mostly about porn. Just sayin.’

112. If you disagree with your company’s ethics why work for them and support them? You cannot have that much of a problem with them.

113. That actually DID make me laugh out loud. If you can equate a hooker with a doctor then there is clearly no arguing with such an irrational mind. Just like when I have parents who refuse to vaccinate because “God will protect my children”, I cannot fight that kind of ridiculous “logic”.

114. Actually I see no difference between hookers and porn “stars”, indeed both are paid to have sex and I have never understood why one is legal and the other is not. I come on this site for entertainment value. Some of the posts are interesting and you do have articles that touch in real world events important to the LGBT community like when a same sex marriage ban is overturned or a major celebrity comes out. Enjoying some parts of your website is not on par with tacit approval of every topic you post about. Just like I do not understand how you state that you believe in the importance of safe sex while simultaneously constantly promoting barebacking. If you want the real face of hypocrisy all you have to do is look in a mirror.

115. Maybe that is why education is so important, so people have more options in their career paths.

116. Then you are an absolute hypocrite. If you really have that much of a problem with evil, evil Wall Street then donate the money to a worthy charity.

117. Maybe I just have more respect for my family then. I would never want a member of my family to lower themselves to being a hooker. If you want that for your family I feel sorry for you and them.

118. Very few big companies ARE ethical in the way they treat staff and suppliers, so quitting one for another is a little pointless. Having said that, I’m looking at chucking it all together and volunteering at a local food bank. Most people cant afford to do that though, so I recognise I’m lucky.
     I get that it seems weird to not judge escorts, but i don’t. Honestly. I have no idea why, but it’s just something that’s never pinged my moral radar.

119. Seems like it’s be easier to list whose not doing porn ad a prostitution infomercial. (I’m sorry, escort). The idea of them sleeping with anybody for cash some how turns me off. I couldn’t do it, especially if clientele were people I just wasn’t attracted to. I mean I could let them blow me bit a full passionate reciprocating time? But guess they have their ground rules and viagra & other drugs

120. Not judging bit how do u know he was enjoying… Id think some people would feel awkward knowing this guy is bring nice to you cuz you’re paying him $500. Then some customers without a good head on their shoulders could have negative repercussions afterwards when they process. Heck between thousand dollars scenes, bar appearances, stripping, getting people to buy them stuff from Amazon (how/when did that become a thing), lot of them who spend time on marketing should be making a good living

121. I’m sure a lot could be

122. Yeah paying would he weird… Feel fake too. Why do cops always gp after female hookers & yet these guys are so brazen advertising and yet seems authorities dont care. Well at least they provide service for closeted politicians

123. It’s not just insecurities. You can he as hot or hotter than them if they’re taking your money it changes the dynamics. If you’re someone who does want some emotion especially

124. There’s a big difference between stripping and illegal prostitution. Just saying. Sex means different things to different people. Being or hiring a hookers is not for everyone. Porn is different also.

125. I recently read an old interview Jake Jaxson of Cockyboys did where he admitted most (not all) models get into this for the wrong reasons or cuz they dont have a choice or were damaged in some way or seeking attention etc… And often don’t realize the ramifications that come down the pike… How expendable they become when the younger, hunger, hotter guy always comes along. No healthcare or benefits or residuals, and still something that can come back and bite you. A model even said he loved the attention but he wouldn’t have chosenit if he had oother options. Its easy to fantasize about it but then I think about what I was doing at 18/20 and never would have been an option. I just hope these guys have other careers, education, plans and take care of their health, finances, and keep their heads screwed on Straight and everything in perspective.

126. They are at least prostitutes breaking the law in most jurisdictions. Calling them an escort or rent not doesnt change that. Sure now and then they might do something non-sexual but thats what they are selling.. They & their clients are the ones who have to be OK with it. But also glamorizing it isn’t portraying the reality

127. I think it would depend on the guy. I couldn’t fake the padding and intimacy I would want to provide the other person. Some may have limits.. You’d have to ask. You also have to think about how you’d feel during and after. If you’re going to feel bad or insecure, it might not be worth it. I could easily see someone feeling worse about themselves afterward. I could let someone massage, touch , suck me. Let them watch me short (ok I did thisonce as a dare pplus I really wanted to help someone and see what it would feel lije) but I couldn’t have full out sex.. I couldn’t fake being into it sucking or fucking someone who turned me off. But people are different. I also like some human connection and emotion. I think you have to be honest with the escort about your looks, feelings, expectations and see if it’s a problem. From what I’ve read, most see it as part of their job. How they perform when they’re not attracted, who knows. They often claim performing on camera with types they’re not attracted to but even the least hot in the major studios ate all in shape

128. I agree with the last part of your comment EXCEPT if you know you’re really not going to be able to provide the client with the service they want. Some might not kiss or bottom or rim etc. If I had to be with a 400lb guy who wad 70 years old, I probably couldn’tprovide tthe experience he wanted it he wanted the whole shebang. I hate saying that but if I’m not attracted to some extent, u wouldn’t be able to do it

129. At least they’re honest..

130. You just want to know that in advance before shelling out hundreds of dollars & thats virtually impossible to know (despite reviews)

131. Might be easier to list those I’m porn who don’t escort

132. It would be interesting to learn if any of these model/escorts have psychology degreeswhere they ccould perform more in a role of sex therapist /surrogate. There are a lot of gay men with sexual issues who really could benefit. Even if some just had some training, I couldsee how ssome could really help some guys overcome some fear or shame or concerns about how to do it right etc. I would think that would be extra gratifying as well

133. Huh? So you have an issue with religion too?

     I stand by my comment. Though you as a doctor are not being too respectable at the moment.

134. What part of their choices not being about you do you not understand?

     I respect my family immensely, enough to respect their choices in life.

135. Appreciate your honesty but then it seems more than likely that you got into escorting to have sex with good looking guys and not for the money. I cannot imagine a female escort turning down a wealthy client simply because they are overweight or old. I thought most of the guys who escort do so because they get turned on easily thereby provide a service regardless of the person’s looks. If it was only to have sex with attractive people then as I said it becomes a self paying hobby. I cannot imagine the majority of clients being ridiculously attractive guys so it seems that this approach is not logical.

136. I have an issue with stupidity in any form.

137. Connor Maguire also has profile on Rentboy.

138. I think it’s great to mention that hiring an escort is really about making sure you get what you want. Unless you’re dating frequently or fucking tricks from Grindr on a consistent basis, something like this is not only less time-intensive, but possibly less expensive too!

139. You don’t have to have sex with them. Some people hire escorts just for companionship, a night out, etc.

140. At least the parents would know the son is having sex with strangers. (That is, unless you share your entire sex life with your parents.)

141. Gracias! I’ve been expanding upon the list as other names are mentioned.

142. It’s not just you. Sounds like some bad programming code.

143. http://31.media.tumblr.com/84b58a7d88140d148b2d5277548dd974/tumblr_n4114gc6US1s5tri4o1_500.gif

144. This might be my favorite comment on the whole entire post.

     Thank you, HiThere.

145. I have never written to this blog before but sweet Jesus, I sure pity your patients if you are indeed a medical doctor. Are you this judgemental with your patients? You criticize Dewitt for resorting to swearing (which is a perfectly valid form of speech when wanting to express outrage or enthusiasm) but in most of your rants (yes, when you spew out the same opinion over and over, I consider it a rant), you keep calling sex workers “common whores”. How utterly disrespectful and sad for you. What a high horse you are sitting on. And you don’t see anything hypocritical about you ranting on a CASUAL SEX HOOK UP SITE about the morality of selling sex? And puh-leez, saying you enjoy the articles is about as convincing as “I only read Playboy for the articles” argument. Now it’s your turn to critique me from on high….GO!

146. @TheTruthHurts
     Now you are just getting nit-picky and illogical.

     Deli73 has responded amply, adequately and reasonably to your questions. It would seem, however, that you have an axe to grind and will not accept that someone else has a different opinion than yours.

     Unfortunately, I have seen many a holier-than-thou people like you, who have their heads buried in the sand and have an uncontrollable urge to make everyone submit to your opinion and your worldview.

     All I can say is good luck in the world….. you’ll definitely need it.

147. AMEN Dewitt !!!!!

148. @TheTruthHurts. First of all calm down before you blow an artery. I don’t “really have that much of a problem” with with any of this and I never said Wall St. was evil. Your words not mine. The fact that I would put Wall Street below an escort doesn’t make me an “absolute hypocrite” because I have a 401k. That’s a fucking stupid analogy but you’re entitled to that opinion. To give all my retirement earnings to charity is moronic. What I do is volunteer for worthwhile charities with time AND money and still have my 401k. And yes I would still put most of those bastards lower than an escort. Way lower. Feel free to spout off with more of your venomous, ridiculous opinions though. It’s become “almost” funny.

149. The only reason anyone here thinks “wow” is because we are amazed that you were actually able get through ONE year considering your amazing likeability factor.
     Oh wait!
     Maybe this is how you get all that anger out? You come here to full of hate and anger so you can expunge all that horrible stuff you see everyday?

     Nah. I think your just a trolling jackass.

150. And you prove that every time you make a post about “whores”.
     Can’t you see the hypocrisy in your own comments? For someone with a supposed 24 years of education you sure don’t present a good argument for even yourself.

151. And, the men I have hired are, by and large, extremely nice men. They are not clock watchers as a whole….part of that is because i hire tops, which makes it a little more difficult to do appointment right after appointment. The biggest piece of advice i can give to the potential client is not to be an obsessed fan. You may be going wild inside, but you have to hide it to enjoy the experience of the man in front of you an not the guy you have fantasized about. If you can do that, you will enjoy. One of the first porn escorts I hired was this hot top who did mainly leather themed movies, His persona on screen is very direct, and at times, almost an asshole.

     The man I spent a few hours with, however, had all of the physical traits I liked, but because I was not asking him to be that persona, I ended up getting to know the real man, and had an amazing time. As a matter of fact, we clicked so much in that session that I never hired him again because we became friends…sadly we never had sex again, but our friendship is strong to this day.

     So leave the pre-conceived notions at home…and if you think that you would not be able to be with him and NOT be all crazy fan…maybe you should look at another escort, because if expect the guy you see on the screen to be the one that shows up, you might very well be disappointed.

152. Grow up, my friend. If a guy (or girl for that matter) wants to hire themselves out for sex, that’s their business so long as it doesn’t affect anyone else adversely.

153. After me, my friend!

154. I agree with most of what Trey Leone says but what actually is a whore? Would you call an adult porn star a whore? Would you call a pin-up model (male or female) a whore?

155. Here, here!

156. Honesty is not always the best policy. If you engender an argument, you must expect the likely reaction and resulting to verbal/or written abuse merely shows a lack of restraint and tolerance.

157. YES to all your questions because a “job” is any form of manual or other labour in return for a monetary payment.

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