Retired RandyBlue porn star Malachi Marx has returned for the finale of his two-part interview. In case you missed it or have already forgotten, the first part featured Andy and I trading off interviewing duties for our very first tag-team interview. We asked you to submit your own questions for an epic gangbang-style interview…
Well, it turned out that you guys didn't have many actual questions. There was, however, plenty of criticism in the air. We gave Malachi a chance to respond to some of your comments, and tell you a little more about the thought process behind his upcoming Gay 4 Pay book. Hope you enjoy his answers!
– Dewitt
To read the interview and check out some NSFW pics, follow the JUMP:
JT: Maybe I missed it, but I don’t understand your number 3 reason for getting into gay porn–”Knowing it would be a great way to gather additional material for my book that was in progress already.” So were you gay-for-pay as an escort, began forming this book and then got into porn? Which came first?
Escorting came first and when I realized the subject matter was unique and somewhat crazy, I got the idea to begin documenting for a book.
JEREMY S.: If your aim is to sell a book based on your experiences, you don’t sabotage the effort by admitting that you didn’t enjoy the sex. And whether you like it or not, your kids will find out.
This book is about delivering a raw and honest expression of my experiences during this year. I treated it like every other occupation I've had, and although it challenged me as an individual, I learned from a lot of different people and resources. This industry gave me more awareness and a greater understanding of people.
To address the subject of my kid finding out: I guess I will have to deal with that if the situation arises. I hope to raise my kids in a very understanding, non-judgemental way.
ALEX: Best escorting experience and worst escorting experience?
Best escorting experience was talking with a non-sexual 74 year old client about life. Worst escorting experience was with an obese lawyer who had horrible breath and constantly was farting.
DREW: “My goal is to make this a best-selling book that turns into a movie.”- For the sake of this kid, I really hope that you have a back-up plan…
I have very diversified avenues of income. The movie project would be more of a hobby and a fun project.
ALEX: If a movie was made about your life, who would you want to play you?
I would love Ashton Kutcher to play me.
N8: If you’re truly not gay, how did you stay hard enough to fuck someone? I don’t see how that would happen if you’re not attracted to men.
I closed my eyes and played out fantasies in my mind. It definitely took a lot of practice!
V-8: Did you ever genuinely enjoy the sex, or any intimate experience with a man?
No, I honestly did not. Everything I enjoyed about the experiences were nonsexual.
TOM IN COS: If this is an experiment in sexuality, as you say, then how do you not get lost in the experiment? To provide an organic, authentic experience, I would think you would need to experience the full berth of what it means to be gay.
I understand what you are saying, but I was doing this as a money experiment more than a gay experiment. I did this only as a personal stepping stone in which I decided to share my experiences with others.
DOHRAYME: This interview made me feel uneasy and somewhat exploited. Do you feel guilty knowing that you’re making money off of the sexual fantasies of gay men you have no sexual interest in?
No, I do not feel guilty; it was my job. I was a sex worker who got paid to play off people's fantasies. Each client thoroughly enjoyed their experience with me.
LEE KEELS: I sense a real disdain for your gay following, and almost a hint of homophobia, which I find very disturbing.
I am not sure how I portrayed disdain for my following, as I openly admit that this year has given me a profound respect for the gay community. However, it was my primary goal to make money. I grew a lot as a person and was impacted greatly from the many men I met.
This guy just keeps digging a deeper hole for himself. Absolutely disgusting.
whatever he believes about himself he is still sexy as hell 🙂
Let me close my eyes and fantasize about a hot Gay man who doesn’t have disdain for gay sex and actually enjoys it. I could just barf! And that book will be at the $.99 bin at Half-priced book store.
wow you guys are bitter, he’s damn hot and gave me plenty to look at, he was a porn star that’s all he needs to do. Who cares if he is straight and didn’t enjoy it. get a life people!
There is no lack of gay actors who play straight men and straight actors who play gay men. So this guy just did the porn version of it, and he is writing about it. What’s the big deal? I see no reason to think that he’s lying about anything. I’ve had sexual experiences when I went through the motions without enjoying any of it, not even when I came. And I hear nothing in the interview that suggests he has “disdain” for gay men or gay sex.
I wish Malachi & his family all the best. However, I am going to leave Mr Marx with a bit of advice. Hire a publicist. Don’t do anymore phone, video, online or in person interviews. Have someone else write a script for you. Like reading off a teleprompter. Unless you intended to appear to the gay community (the same society of men that allowed your commercial and financial “success”) as rude, callous, opportunistic, self involved, foolish and a user…stop talking. The English vocabulary…the spoken word are not your friends. Best Wishes!
So hot and then he spoke…illusion shattered.
@ Spongey
not every pornstar enjoys who they pair them with even if they are gay, thats a bit far fetched.
example Brent and Lucas (dislike each other in real life) but if they ended up working for the same company and the company said “have sex for the camera”, they would.
not every person is attracted to the same type of guy. lets say a pornstar in real life is attracted to bears but the porn directors wanted to pair him with a twink, he would do the scene but wouldn’t necessarily enjoy it or be in to it, he’d probably imagine he was with the kind of guy he is attracted to in real life.
he answered my question and yet I am not too convinced… though I will not lose sleep… lol
I just do not understand why he did not write and became an escort and porn actor for straight movies….. sure there r books and movies about that already, but the gay for pay is such an old and tired story… even the expression is vernacular now (thanks in part to Tyra)….
now one person wrote that straight actors play gay, and gay actors play straight….. if you mean straight movie actors (not porn actors), well I think there is a very huge difference between Brokeback mountain kissing and fooling around, and the full on cock in mouth and ass this guy went through….. c’mon, look at the first picture….
if anything, this guy is a genius for having the imagination of fantasizing about something else with that fat cock in his mouth….. but i think the book is gonna flop, or maybe be a favorite of republican senators……
Hahaha! I got featured! But seriously not to sound like a bitch this book will basically be see jan run. Let’s be honest, this guy is full of crap. NO ONE gets a movie about their book as a “fun project”. It would be the most money he would ever make. Hope Ashton isn’t clogging your voicmail Max!
I really wish these Gay for Pay Actors would JUST SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!!!! If it’s about the fantasy of being with them…i definitely dont give a shit about him being straight….then I dont wanna fucken hear about it either.
I wish gay media outlets would stop interviewing these guys if they are gay for pay OR if those actors would just go about the interviews and play gay in the interviews as well. I could care less about their personal lives, really.
They aren’t real people, we use them for jacking off purposes….just like lube, dildos, fleshjack…these porn stars are just a means to and end…cumming!
BTW. He’s not even Randy Blue’s best “gay for pay actor….Reese Rideout is supposedly straight 100%…he’s way better and way more humble.
the future mel gibson of gay porn!
This guy is such a douche! please stop featuring him, or if you have to just put pictures of him up for the people who want to see them. Please, no more of him thinking and talking, its too much torture!
ZZZZZZ! Can’t we just forget about this guy? It seems to me that would be the very best thing we could do to him. Simply not mention him, his porn work or his book ever again.
V-8: probably the reason he didn’t become an escort and actor for straight films is because those guys are literally a dime a dozen. The women make all the money and get all the marketing. To make a name for yourself in straight porn, you have to be muscular (Peter North), super-hung (John Holmes) or an ugly/fat oddity (Ron Jeremy). Marx is none of these. Good looking, yes, but too pretty to compete with the girls.
yeah, i dont think i like this guy very much. He is kinda the reason people have a conception of gay men, the we only want to have sex, and will do ANYONE to get it. I used to think this guy was very good looking, now all i am left with is a bad taste in my mouth. It’s a shame…..
The I did it for the money is the fallback position of guys of this “persuasion.” Yeah, you keep telling yourself that. I suppose we shouldn’t expect professionalism from porn stars, and I am sure that most of them are nice enough guys but if you honestly expect to sell a book or have it turn into a movie, most people want to hear the positive message of it. I have yet to hear one quote from this dude that could be described as positive of his experience. I remember that Pretty Woman, the script before Julia Roberts was the story of a hooker who latches onto a rich dude and trust me it all ends badly. That doesn’t sell. So it was rewritten. All this man does is propagate the stereotype of gay men. And Pretty Dude starting Ashton Kutcher really isn’t going to happen. It is has been done. Rather like this man. Whatever he tells himself, truth is he took the money, ran with it and now shoots the finger at his fans. The only purchasers of this book are the right wing of the country who would want to believe this poor boy was exploited by these evil gays and should come to Jesus right away.
He’s gay and in denial… That’s it. End of discussion
I never realised what a douche this guy is. Im officially turned off by him. He sounds like a guy just out for money and I honestly dont believe anything he says except that hes only after the money, that much is true so I woulndt be surprised that hed lie to gain himself attention cause no offense, why the hell would I ever buy a book off some guy who fucks on Randy Blue.com
In my opinion he is very honest about his involvement and experiences on gay sex. Most gay men feel disappointment and betray that he claim not to be gay while making money off gay people. But people need to understand that, he is an entertainer, just like any other porn (or non-porn) entertainer outta there. As an entertainer, his goal is to entertain the audience and relate to the audience’s emotions through fantasy. He was not paid to enjoy sex, rather to satisfy the audience just like any actors out there (Brad Pitt/Al Pachino) playing a criminal. I do not know why there is so much anger towards his epression. He never said he enjoyed it, and he has no obligation (emotinally) to enjoy the gay sex. How many of you guys that hate your jobs to the guts but you go to work every week just for the money?
Speaking of money, we all love money and we all do the things we do like (or support) for money including work, marriage, domestic partners just to name a few. COnsider escorting/porn as another job. Do solders fighting in Iraq love to kill other people? Probably not, they do it for social and economic benefits. Give a person the right incentive and he will do what you ask. Please next time before we complain we need to check with sociology, pyschology or even economics class.
Well, Ashton does look like him.
I still think he’s a total douchebag. I’m sorry, but no matter how hot anyone thinks you are – you don’t have the right to act like you’re superior to everyone else. Maybe I’m reading too deeply into this interview. I don’t know. Every single response he made rubbed me the wrong way.
On the other hand, he IS a sex worker. He doesn’t need to like what he’s doing to make money off it. I just wish he’d kept his mouth shut. (I also wish that he’d shave off that ridiculous stubble and do something about that gayface, but whatever. You can’t always get what you want.)
I have to say that a lot of gay people set ourselves up for disappointment with pornstars. We make them into the aristocracy of the gay community. Most of them are tough straight boys who come from poor backgrounds. They usually dont have many choices in life. They do porn and escorting because it pays better than working at McDonalds. He probably has a couple thousand dollars in the bank so he thinks he’s rich. When his money runs out he’ll be escorting again. Mark my word.
He’s straight. And so’s mine.
Well he sure did seem 2 enjoy Leo Giamini dick up his ass !!! Melachi we r convince that your not gay ( was gay4pay ) now convince yourself because it seems that your consious is what needs convincing that u pretty BOI r not gay.
He is an A-Hole. I will no longer watch anything he is in and I will remove his videos from my library.
oooh i too was featured! yay!
to tresqboy – i understand hes a performer and i also get that he has no obligation to enjoy the gay sex hes having. what really bothers me about this interview is that i feel in supporting someone like marx, im betraying the gay community. i dunno maybe its the whole gay marriage debate craziness happening thats affecting me but im sick and tired of str8 people using us for whatever need and not even be grateful. it may sound silly but im going to throw my $upport behind gay performer. at least then i wouldnt be supporting a-holes like this dude. thanks marx for showing me the light.
@dohrayme
We as gay men tend to strongly politicize every issue that we come across. We raise our expectation so high to the point of forcing everyone we encounter to be somewhat gay or support our internal agendas.
Most guys here will not agree with my point about the whole sexuality classes. Some people will swing back and forth between gay and straight until the gravity pull them in one side of the fence. There is no such a thing as “Once you are gay/straight, you will always be gay/straight” respectively. For some people, it is a matter of trials and errors until they find their comfort zone. Most people goes through experimentation for a little while.
I undestand we all feel like we have been cheated, especially if you examine the fact that Marx pre-meditated his intentions to exploit the gay community, but that is part of life. The key here is to separate the two mixed-up cases: Politics from entertainment. He may be politically less accurate, but as an entertainer he did not cause no harm to the gay audience.
He is just a prostitute, he may very well be straight, I know straight men that are gay prostitutes but c’mon don’t be so disrespectful, he tries too too hard to make people think he’s straight, coincidence, I think not
He is just a prostitute, he may very well be straight, I know straight men that are gay prostitutes but c’mon don’t be so disrespectful, he tries too too hard to make people think he’s straight, coincidence, I think not
I live in Tampa, FL and I have a friend who did a sex scene with him and he asked him to call him for a drink sometime, and gave him his number, could have been perfectly innocent, but…… you draw your own conclusions
Ry, the difference between actors who are performing a scene and this dude is that you don’t hear Brad Pitt say, gee I hated doing this freakin movie. Actors promote piece of shit movies every day, and they KNOW it is a POS. It is their JOB to do it and they get PAID to do it. This man’s sexual proclivities are his own business, but I don’t really want to hear him whine about how terrible it was to get paid to have sex and how he had to fantasize really hard about pussy. Grow up. If you had the balls to do it you should have the balls to not whine about it. I did love the best escort experience story he had. I’m sure it was for him because probably he talked about himself the whole time. I wonder what the senior thought? He probably wears a T-shirt that said I hired a porn star for oral and all I got was talked to.
i’ll keep it simple:
the short of it is, i did not come away with (m)any Positive Feelings, in light of what i read mr. marx say, above.
(i like to think of myself as being a reasonably fair, understanding, impartial person — i’m not out here Gunning for malachi; nor do i really have anything especial invested in him, at all.
so…)
im not quite sure what it was.. but i took some offense to this interview, as well as the first.
anyone feel the same way/understand why i suddenly hate the bastard?
i understand, jamesy.
I think this “self-published book” is a cover. To distract from the truth that he sold his body to men for sex. He probably enjoyed the sex and definitely the money. Then he stepped up his game for more money with Randy Blue, etc. but of course by doing so, the sex “he didn’t enjoy” was going to become permanent public record. So he pulled an “Omarosa” (Omarosa from the Apprentice…told everyone afterward she only acted the way she did to get research for her book…still waiting for that to hit the NY Times Bestseller List.) It’s why I believe Malachi when he said escorting came first, then the concept of the book. His main concern I believe is to try to avoid being labeled gay and a prostitute for the rest of his life. What sounds better? “It was all research for this blockbuster novel or I had no education or other marketable skills (beyond my looks, my ass and my mouth) to generate an income for my family?” Oh hell, I’m just like the poeple that couldn’t stop talking about Jon & Kate!!
I think this “self-published book” is a cover. To distract from the truth that he sold his body to men for sex. He probably enjoyed the sex and definitely the money. Then he stepped up his game for more money with Randy Blue, etc. but of course by doing so, the sex “he didn’t enjoy” was going to become permanent public record. So he pulled an “Omarosa” (Omarosa from the Apprentice…told everyone afterward she only acted the way she did to get research for her book…still waiting for that to hit the NY Times Bestseller List.) It’s why I believe Malachi when he said escorting came first, then the concept of the book. His main concern I believe is to try to avoid being labeled gay and a prostitute for the rest of his life. What sounds better? “It was all research for this blockbuster novel or I had no education or other marketable skills (beyond my looks, my ass and my mouth) to generate an income for my family?” Oh hell, I’m just like the poeple that couldn’t stop talking about Jon & Kate!!
He could have been a professional CMT, an unlicensed masseur, he could have been a professional escort for women, so many things he could have done for cash if he didn’t enjoy the sex with men but he continued to have sex with men repeatedly. Then he chose to have sex with men on camera. All for the money? Probably. He didn’t enjoy the gay sex…at all? Ever? Not likely. Never gonna convince anyone of that.
He could have been a professional CMT, an unlicensed masseur, he could have been a professional escort for women, so many things he could have done for cash if he didn’t enjoy the sex with men but he continued to have sex with men repeatedly. Then he chose to have sex with men on camera. All for the money? Probably. He didn’t enjoy the gay sex…at all? Ever? Not likely. Never gonna convince anyone of that.
interesting that this comes up right now with all the tiger woods stuff in the air. there’s a parallel: why do we feel our entertainment figures [including athletes and even porn models] need to be ROLE models for us? athletes are there to show us their skills in sports. porn models are there for us to fantasize about. regardless of what i feel about malachi marx or any other porn guy, i don’t look at their images to make them role models. i look at them to get off.
Wow! He’s very… very… =p
He goes to my gym and is a complete tool bag. Randy Blue must use the same camera lens filter that they use to shoot Barbara Walters on the View.