Who said the bedroom was the place to get frisky? If you want to spice things up with your lovah, then take the naughty out of the bedroom. And don’t forget the hot sauce, chulo!
The fastest way to turn up the heat is to add an element of danger and depravity. Do something you’re not supposed to.
If being naughty is new to you, then dip your toes in the salacious waters by leaving your loved one a dirty voicemail. And by “dirty” I mean practically illegal.
When you get home tonight I’m going to have my ass lubed and waiting for your cock. I want you to fuck me as soon as you walk in through the door. Rough and hard. Tear my ass apart till I’m screaming in pain. I’m your little bitch tonight, so I want you to use me like the filthy cum whore that I am. Try to get home early.
You know. Something like that (and seriously, that was mild).
Once you’re ready to move forward with your naughtiness, try role playing… in public. Agree on a time and a place to meet your man and let the pick-up fantasy unfold from there. It’s like meeting for the first time all over again (but this time it won’t be on the internet). Have the romantic night you only see in movies (boring!) or have the crazy spontaneous night you only see in porn (try fucking in a parking garage stairway—very Raging Stallion).
If full-on outdoors sex is too wild for your mild, give a try to what has come to be known at the ManhuntDaily offices as the “Dewitt Method”: finger fucking in public. At the movie theater, when getting close on the dance floor, while sitting next to each other during dinner with the in-laws, or if walking down the streets of New York… there are innumerable situations where you can bust out (or bust in) a good finger bang.
Whatever you decide, have fun with it. The trick to a satisfying sex life is keeping it exciting. Let your imagination go wild. Please share any ideas or suggestions you may have for guys wanting to take the fun out of the bedroom.
– Dr. Queerlove
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The only public sex I’ve had was in university bathrooms, and once in my office (though I think the cleaning lady heard us that time, awkward).
I will say the shower is a really fun place to play, though. You can have a lot of dirty fun getting thoroughly clean. And kissing your partner while he jerks your cock and the hot water pounds your asshole and balls? Priceless.
I often meet my lover in my pickup in a multi story car near his office and have him fuck me bent over the hood when he finishes work, legs apart. The lube handprints prints on the windscreen are priceless and make for good laughter driving home.
Or blowjobs in the front seat in some darkened car park or street while he fingers my arse….mmmm
Go to a big park on weekdays, early morning or very late, epending the situation, when almost no oneis in there. And give (or b given) a blow job. Dont be so scary, add danger to the fun by making it whit your pants halgfway down, while resting near a tree. Other way is having sex after a movie on the theather bathrooms on a non frecuent day, lets say a monday and first presentation. Get ina cubicle and get complitely naked. Is just awesome!
I’ve had sex out on a dark street with little traffic. The freedom of being out there in the open and getting my dick sucked was awesome. That night even got me so hot i even blew the guy to completion and (voluntarily) took his load in my mouth. Unfortunately the next night had a couple cars come riding down that street and a cop car drove down the intersecting street ahead. So we cut that encounter short and haven’t been there since. Sigh
It might be skanky, but nothing beats getting so in the mood that you go for a quickie in the bathroom stall at a club or bar…Coming out, seeing people in line (albeit, a little frustrated) is such a rush…or if someone’s banging on teh door, getting you to hurry up.
Another favorite is being at a party and sitting down on your guys lap, feeling him get hard, so you discreetly find a way to jerk him off while you continue doing what you’re doing…
dewitt! you must be so proud of yourself:
you now have an actual sex act named after you!
**High Five**
Let’s see…a three-way in a bathroom stall, one-on-one in a bathroom stall, shower sex and outside a car on a dark dead end street….all good….However, would never have sex at work.
Meeting a hook-up at 1am at a car dealership and bending him over the tailgate of a Ford F-150, while in ripped jeans and cowboy boots. Then making him strip totally naked and finishing him off with a supersized dildo.
when my husband and i first me, fucking him with his head out the cab of my pick up truck on a quiet street in Asbury…..getting road head in the Holland Tunnel with a huge trucker in the truck next to us watching..countless bathrooms, parks, airplanes, trains, buses–the best was in a confessional in a church: ”bless me father for i have sinned”.lol