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I was wondering if you had any advice on what to do with a prince albert? I just recently started dating a guy that has one. He's the first guy I've been with who has one. I usually love to give head but I haven't to him because I’m not sure how to handle it. I don’t know how to begin. What do I do?
Piercingly Puzzled
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Hey Dr. Queerlove,
I'm a young guy, (22) recent graduate. I work out and have a nice body. Told I'm cute. So, why can't I find a guy?
When I was in school it was easy. Now I'm in a bigger city and it’s surprisingly hard. I can get a number, but if I call or text there is no response, or maybe some conversation then I never hear from the guy again. I'm told I can be a little aggressive but I feel if I wasn't I wouldn't be able to go up to guys in the first place.
How do I approach a guy and keep him interested beyond a one night stand? I know I'm only 22, but a lot of my straight college friends are getting married or have been in long term relationships. I'm tired of hook-ups. What can I do?
Sincerely,
Looking for Love in Detroit
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I absolutely loathe foreskin. I’m circumcised and don't like the way an uncut cock looks or feels. Plus there's always that hygiene issue. One could say I have a down right phobia for foreskin. I know I am just going to have to get over it because one of these days I might meet someone whom I'm really into and would just happen to be uncut. What can I do to overcome this?
- Cutlover
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Dear Doctor Q,
I recently started seeing this guy; he's cute, has a great body, and we have a great time whenever we talk. But he's a total disappointment in bed. We get naked, start kissing, feel each other up—all great so far—and then he just lays there. I have to do all the work. I don't mind being in control, but I need the other guy to get into it! When I try to pull him on top of me, he'll lay on his side (at most). He won't even suck my cock unless I tell him to or get on top of him to 69. When I give him a massage or eat his ass, and I can't tell if he's enjoying it or falling asleep.
We've had sex twice. Both times he got off. I did not.
I'm an animal when I'm with a hot guy: clawing, kissing, licking and nibbling all over. However, I think he's confusing my passion for satisfaction. Once he shoots, he's done ('cause apparently it's exhausting to lay there and have someone suck you off). And he seems to be under the impression that I had just as good a time as he did.
I love that he's so into kissing and body contact, because I really enjoy that, but that's a small part of sex.
What should I do? I really like him, and think there could be a possible future, but not if he keeps acting like a gutted flounder in the sack. How do I get him to be more aggressive without hurting his feelings or making him feel inadequate? Please help!
Sincerely, Doing All the Work
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I’ve been seeing someone, but lately I've started going limp during sex and cannot get my erection back. Sometimes I can jerk it back up but when I insert it into him it goes limp again. This has happened twice and though he says "It's ok” and “not to worry" I can't help but feel like a complete let down. This happened again last night and he just fell out of the mood. I am wondering if you know what may be causing this problem.
Sincerely, Limpy Dinky
Dear Doctor Q,
I have a sexual dilemma. Depending on the man I'm with, I consider myself to be versatile. I enjoy plowing a man's hot ass as well as getting plowed in the ass by a hot man. However, sometimes when I bottom I can't keep a hard-on to save my life. If the guy is well endowed or a bit too rough at first, my cock lays there like Mr. Limpy.
I enjoy bottoming a lot and it feels amazing, so why am I having trouble? I've used dildos before and don't have a problem, but haven't been able to stay hard or have an orgasm with a real one.
Is there something wrong with me? Am I psyching myself out? What should I do?
Yours truly, Bottom In Trouble
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Dear Dr. Queerlove,
Two nights ago I met someone on MANHUNT. I arrive at his apartment, conversation flows nicely, he’s actually as cute as his pictures, and there is plenty of innocent flirting. We start to kiss and he whispers in my ear “You must be special. I’m not usually this easy.” Umm... ok? Something told me he’d used that line before, but before I gave it too much thought we were in his bedroom, clothes flying.
Now, he’s great with his mouth… when it’s on my body. Not so much when he’s talking. He’d already complimented me several times on my looks, as I did with him – fun and flirty. But in bed it started to get a little strange. “How did I get so lucky to get a hot guy like you in my bed?” “What did I do to deserve such a gift from the heavens?” “You’re the most amazing person I’ve ever seen” And my personal favorite “It’s nice to have someone my age, too. I’m used to guys in their mid-forties who aren’t nearly as attractive as you!”
At this point I just didn’t know what to say… I started getting really turned off by the overwhelming amount of praise. Then it happened. We were about to climax and he started to cry. Not just a few tears and a sniffle—he let out several high pitched wails and was actually crying. I didn’t know what to do. I was completely taken off guard. So, I kept doing what I was doing and we awkwardly finished up.
At this point it was nearly 3am, so I spent the night. He kissed me all over, all through the night; held me; and was almost too attentive. In the morning he insisted on driving me home. When he dropped me off he said he’d call me when I got out of work today and couldn’t wait to talk about our first two dates, which he had already started planning. After work today he called me twice and texted three times within the course of an hour.
I’m totally flattered, and he seems like such a nice guy, but it’s all so overwhelming. I’m not used to this. Is this normal? After spending the night and feeling so smothered I know we’re not a match, but how do I let him down without totally crushing him? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
- Cubby Bearnstein
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Doctor Q,
I've been seeing this guy on and off for two years. Right now we’re in our longest span together, and things were going great. Then last week I was using his computer and stumbled upon some photos of me... and then photos of naked women.
I freaked out and left his apartment. I couldn’t bring it up until last night. His response was that at some point "he did want to have a wife and kids, but not anymore.” That he was “just in love with me, and that’s all [he] needed." He says he only gets off to women if he is in the mood. But thinking about it, I realized he never bottoms or 'return favors' during sex. This made me emotional so I stopped talking to him.
Am I over-reacting? I've heard dating bisexual people is way more complicated and have vowed never to do it. I don't know what to do, what to say to him, or how to get past this. Please help.
Sincerely, Feminine but not a female
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Dear Dr. Queerlove,
I have this embarrassing problem. With certain guys, for reasons unknown to me, when they put their dick in and start going at it, I get an air pocket in my ass. Now the best way to describe this would simply be a male queef. If I don't expel it, the sex starts getting uncomfortable. How does one avoid this situation to begin with?
- InflatableButt
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Dr. Queerlove,
I’ve been dating a guy for about three weeks. He’s very sweet and we have fun. I enjoy our dates and hang out time. In bed, I would rate him as below-average. But that isn’t the problem. I’ve dated men in the past who’ve needed help in that area, and I have no problem teaching them. The problem is that he has a small penis. It’s less than 4 inches, which would be fine if it were thick, but it’s rather thin. The second time we had sex it was so bad, I lied to him and said I thought we were moving too fast, just so I’d have an excuse to hold off sex (at least for a while). I know that’s wrong, but I couldn’t even feel him inside me.
I recently broke up with someone who I was deeply in love with, so it’s nice having this guy to go out with, but when I travel for work I don’t even miss him. I just don’t feel sexually attracted to him. Is it the penis? Jesus, I just can’t do anything with that!
Help me!
Unexpected Size Queen
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Dr. Queerlove,
So, I've had a fuck buddy for some time now. Through it, he's always had a boyfriend.
Our chemistry is great and we are very attracted to each other, although we've only ever shared sexy time. He and his boyfriend recently broke up. I was wondering if it's at all possible to move beyond fuck buddies and have any kind of meaningful relationship? What do you think?
Forever FB
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