Can gay men (or any men for that matter) successfully practice monogamy? I've argued with plenty of folks on this matter, and they suggested that the concept of having one partner is "puritanical". From their point of view, it's natural for men to cheat, so why set yourself up for disappointment? They also debated that love and sex are two separate things, and you can devote yourself to someone romantically while still having no-strings-attached fun on the side.
Now I'm not implying that this model could work for some people. If you're in a perfectly functional open relationship, more power to you! But for someone to imply that monogamy won't work for me just because it doesn't work for them? I'm not buying it. How about you?
– Dewitt
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