MANHUNT Daily

Have You Ever: Taken Someone's Virginity?

For the record, taking someone's virginity doesn't necessarily mean that they're a younger guy. If you knew the amount of older men whose cherries I've popped, you might gasp a little. Hell, it's even hard for me to believe. For some reason, I'm a magnet for guys who are having sexual awakenings and want to try bottoming for the first time. It's absolutely inexplicable.

As hot as it can be when the anal devirginization process goes smoothly, it's important to recognize that it's not always fun for everyone involved. Back in college, I had a friend who became more than a friend. He trusted me enough that he asked me to be his first. I believe his charming words were, "I don't want to fuck it up with someone who matters." Perhaps it was my bitterness over that statement, but I just couldn't get him to relax and get it all the way in. Or maybe I was just too big for him to handle. Either way, it didn't work out.

That's just one of my stories. Do you have any to share about taking someone's virginity? Was it an uncomfortable experience or did everyone involved seem to enjoy themselves? Discuss!

- Dewitt

Armpits: Hot or Not?

Once upon a time, I dated a guy who was really into armpits. The first time we hooked up, he went right on in there and quickly got a taste of chemical goodness (courtesy of my deodorant). On our second date, we decided to take a shower together before the action got too heavy. As soon as we laid down in bed, his face was practically buried all up in my underarm.

While I found it incredibly charming that he was so attracted to this part of me, I honestly couldn't handle it. You're probably aware by now that I'm relatively open when it comes to sex, so it wasn't like I was grossed out by his rampant fetish. I'm actually just super ticklish, and it drove me crazy to the point that I was uncomfortable. Needless to say, we didn't see one another for very long.

But that's just me. Maybe you share an armpit obsession with my former fling. Hell, maybe you are him. Or perhaps you get off on being on the receiving end of this? In general, what do you think--are armpits hot or not?

- Dewitt

Just The Tips: Finger-Banging 101

Believe it or not, there's an art to finger-banging. It may seem like it's all elementary--"Just stick your finger in the hole and move it around"--but there's so much more you need to consider, and it's not something that just comes naturally to everyone. Here are a few tips to maximize your skills as a finger-banger...

Always use lubrication: Since men don't (ahem) naturally lubricate themselves, it's important to get his hole wet before invading it with your man-fingers. In some cases, saliva is perfectly acceptable, especially when the fingering is shallow and combined with a rimjob. Some guys will even get turned on if you spit on their asshole and rub it in, but I wouldn't necessarily recommend that on a first date.

Remember that you have fingernails: And they shouldn't be sharp or long, as they may cut or irritate your partner's insides. All hangnails should be dealt with prior to your encounter. A finger cot (also known as a "finger condom") can make things a little smoother on your bottom. They're extremely inexpensive and can easily be purchased in bulk from a medical supplies website.

It's not for everybody: Every man who loves to get fucked isn't going to love getting fingered. Start slowly and be gentle. If he's receptive, bring on your A-game.

Forget the in and out: Fingers are much more rigid than cocks, so it may not feel as good when they're thrusting in and out of your partner's hole. A little bit of these motions won't hurt, but try focusing on massaging his "g-spot". Don't know where that is? You shouldn't be ashamed, because of plenty of guys actually don't. Let's put it this way, if your man is lying on his back with his legs in the air, place your fingers in with the palm up and use a light "come hither" movement with your finger. You'll feel a "button-like" area. Once you've found it, apply pressure to it. Massage it. Make love to that shit, because it's your best friend.

Don't forget your mouth and other hand: While you're busy with your fingers in his ass, remember that you can focus on his other parts. Blow him, massage his legs, play with his nipples, kiss him... whatever makes him moan!

These are just a few of my personal tips. I'm sure a few of the expert finger-bangers out there can add to this. And what about the guys who like getting fingered? What drives you particularly wild?

- Dewitt

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Have You Ever: Paid For An Escort?

There's obviously a stigma around paying for sex. People assume that all men who shell out cash for ass are old, insecure, closeted or just plain ugly. But if you ever chat with someone who's worked as an escort, you'll quickly realize that it's really not that simple. 

The reasons for renting another human being for a few hours are impossible to count. Some people get off on the thrill of money exchanging hands. Others are merely looking for the companionship, without dealing with the complications. Sometimes it's just about fulfilling a fantasy.

So without any judgment from us, we have to ask--have you ever paid for sex? What motivated you to do so? And while we're touching upon this topic, have any of you ever been paid for sex? How did it make you feel?

- Dewitt

Photo credit: Joseph Smileuske

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Ear Play: Hot or Not?

You just brought a guy home, and you're making out in your bedroom. He starts kissing your neck, and gradually makes his way up to your ear. He begins by with some light nibbling, blowing on it and then proceeds to flick his tongue around the exterior. After testing the waters a little, he moves on to slightly harder biting and more aggressive licking. Now he's practically making out with your ear.

At what point (if any) in the above scenario are you turned off? In my early years of gay sex, I met a few guys who would go crazy over ear play, almost turning to jello in my hands. I quickly learned that this wasn't the case for everyone, and the man with saliva all over his ears wasn't too happy about contributing to my education.

- Dewitt

Just The Tips: Put A Strip On It

I try not to recommend too many things I haven't tried myself, but this sex tip certainly sounds like a good idea. In the latest edition of web-series "The View From The Bottom", sex vlogger Trevor recommended Listerine strips for rimjobs. I'll let him do the talking on this one:

"If you apply a Listerine strip to the ass when you rim, it has a wonderful effect of creating this cooling sensation. It's quite exciting. It's tingly, it's fun. And if you don't like the taste of ass, obviously that can help alleviate some of those concerns," he says.

Has anyone else ever tried this? I could imagine there's potential for the chemicals in the strip to cause some irritation, but like I said--it sounds like a good idea. Why don't we contemplate on this matter while looking at pictures of a guy getting rimmed? I put them in black and white, just to make them seem "artsy".

- Dewitt

Photo credit: New York Straight Men

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Have You Ever: Tried To Suck Your Own Dick?

Let's just say it's two in the morning, and you still haven't found anyone to suck your dick. Throughout the entire day, all you could think about was the sensation of another man's lips engulfing your cock and swishing his tongue all over it. You start to think, "Maybe I could take matters into my own hands." But considering that certain "matters" are already throbbing and hard in your hands, you begin to reconsider--maybe you should take matters into your own mouth. It seems like a good idea, right?

I'm not going to lie. I've definitely tried to suck my own dick, and it was a rather uncomfortable experience. I managed to lick the tip and eventually get in the whole head. Personally, I found it difficult to enjoy the oral stimulation when I was so damn contorted. With a little more stretching, I may have been able to work on my flexibility, but would it have really been worth it? I think I'll just stick with my hands...

- Dewitt

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Jockstraps: Hot or Not?

For an ass-lover like me, asking whether jockstraps are "hot or not" feels like asking whether water is actually wet. Now, I'm well aware that I'm definitely not the authority on all things hotness, but I can't think of a single reason why someone wouldn't find jockstraps sexy. I love wearing them. I love seeing guys wearing them. And I especially love fucking a guy while he's wearing one, especially when I can grab onto the rear straps and pound away.

But who knows? Maybe you had a traumatic childhood experience, in which a jockstrap ate your kid sister. Perhaps you're furious that jockstraps have seemingly lost their functional value, becoming nothing more than a sexual prop for gay men. I mean, am I wrong to assume that most guys think jockstraps are hot?

- Dewitt

Photo credit: RandyBlue

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Just The Tips: Wanna Wrassle?

A little naked wrestling never hurt anyone, right? Okay, so maybe it has. But if you're careful about choosing the right location and avoiding certain painful jabs, there's no better way to get the adrenaline pumping for a sweaty fuck-fest. And if there is a better way, someone needs to send me a memo!

Wrestling is especially helpful in situations with two versatile guys. Rather than flip a coin to see who plays which role first, wrestle around and see who gets pinned. If he wants it bad enough, chances are that he'll let you pin him. And when you're done giving him a good pounding, I'm sure he'll be more than glad to pin you back.

- Dewitt

Food Sex: Hot or Not?

Never say that dorks don't have fun. During a leadership conference back in the day, I took part in an icebreaker where everyone shared their sexual fantasies. Among the sexually repressed straight dudes, the answers were pretty typical--"OMG, lesbians!" One guy decided to switch it up, suggesting that his ultimate fantasy was whipped cream and chocolate sauce.

And then there was Bill (name changed to protect the innocent), an atrociously cute and tragically confused young man. Taking a cue from the person before him, he offered that his fantasy involved waffles and maple syrup. Laughter ensued, and I'll never forget how badly I wanted to comfort Bill. Okay, I really just wanted to blow Bill, but that's not the point here.

What do you think of bringing a little edible goodness into the bedroom? Does it simultaneously satisfy your sweet tooth and oral fixation? Or does it just get too sticky to deal with? Let us know ASAP, because we've got a can of whipped cream with your name on it. Or maple syrup, if you prefer...

- Dewitt