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Just The Tips: Finger-Banging 101

Believe it or not, there's an art to finger-banging. It may seem like it's all elementary--"Just stick your finger in the hole and move it around"--but there's so much more you need to consider, and it's not something that just comes naturally to everyone. Here are a few tips to maximize your skills as a finger-banger...

Always use lubrication: Since men don't (ahem) naturally lubricate themselves, it's important to get his hole wet before invading it with your man-fingers. In some cases, saliva is perfectly acceptable, especially when the fingering is shallow and combined with a rimjob. Some guys will even get turned on if you spit on their asshole and rub it in, but I wouldn't necessarily recommend that on a first date.

Remember that you have fingernails: And they shouldn't be sharp or long, as they may cut or irritate your partner's insides. All hangnails should be dealt with prior to your encounter. A finger cot (also known as a "finger condom") can make things a little smoother on your bottom. They're extremely inexpensive and can easily be purchased in bulk from a medical supplies website.

It's not for everybody: Every man who loves to get fucked isn't going to love getting fingered. Start slowly and be gentle. If he's receptive, bring on your A-game.

Forget the in and out: Fingers are much more rigid than cocks, so it may not feel as good when they're thrusting in and out of your partner's hole. A little bit of these motions won't hurt, but try focusing on massaging his "g-spot". Don't know where that is? You shouldn't be ashamed, because of plenty of guys actually don't. Let's put it this way, if your man is lying on his back with his legs in the air, place your fingers in with the palm up and use a light "come hither" movement with your finger. You'll feel a "button-like" area. Once you've found it, apply pressure to it. Massage it. Make love to that shit, because it's your best friend.

Don't forget your mouth and other hand: While you're busy with your fingers in his ass, remember that you can focus on his other parts. Blow him, massage his legs, play with his nipples, kiss him... whatever makes him moan!

These are just a few of my personal tips. I'm sure a few of the expert finger-bangers out there can add to this. And what about the guys who like getting fingered? What drives you particularly wild?

- Dewitt

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Just The Tips: Wanna Wrassle?

A little naked wrestling never hurt anyone, right? Okay, so maybe it has. But if you're careful about choosing the right location and avoiding certain painful jabs, there's no better way to get the adrenaline pumping for a sweaty fuck-fest. And if there is a better way, someone needs to send me a memo!

Wrestling is especially helpful in situations with two versatile guys. Rather than flip a coin to see who plays which role first, wrestle around and see who gets pinned. If he wants it bad enough, chances are that he'll let you pin him. And when you're done giving him a good pounding, I'm sure he'll be more than glad to pin you back.

- Dewitt

Just The Tips: Coaxing Your Bottom

Every bottom or versatile guy knows that there are just times when you don't want to be fucked. They also know that there are times when they can be convinced otherwise. Every good top should know when to take no for an answer, but they should also know the tricks to get him on all fours, screaming "Take me!"

Massage him: Getting fucked requires relaxation. Offer to rub down your partner, starting with his neck, shoulders and back. Gradually move down to his ass cheeks and legs, gently kneading them with your hands. If the mood is right, you can even give his butt a little smack. He may clench a little with that sensation, but it'll feel even better when you massage out that tension.

Rim him: Not every guy loves to be rimmed, especially on days when he doesn't want to be fucked. Lick, kiss or gently nibble on his cheeks, inner thighs or lower back. If he responds to this, gradually move closer to tonguing his hole. Key word: gradual. Also, be sure to use some of these rimjob tips!

Use your magic touch: If you're familiar with your partner, you probably know he has certain "spots", and they should be utilized when necessary. If he's new to you, try gently tapping his hole with your index and middle fingers or very gently making circles on the area where his crack meets his back. Another technique? Get him in the spoon position and use your entire palm to brush against his hole, taint and balls. That last one works wonders on me!

Hop in the shower with him: Oftentimes, bottoms will resist getting fucked because they're not confidently clean down there. If you hop in the shower together (or separately if you prefer), he may be a little more receptive.

These are just a few tips that I could come up with, so feel free to share your own! Since different things work on different people, we'd love to hear from all the bottoms what gets them going.

- Dewitt

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Just The Tips: Ten Sex Toys I'd Love To Try

I was planning to write today about using sex toys outside of your solo playtime, and then I realized that I have very little experience in that arena. In fact, it occurred to me that I have an extremely small amount of experience with sex toys in general. I'd like to change that in the next couple of months, and your help would be appreciated.

I've compiled a list of ten sex toys I'm absolutely dying to try. If you've used any of them before, I'd love to hear what you thought of them. I mean, usually I'm trying to teach you guys a lesson, but now I want you to teach me a lesson. So which one should I try first?

- Dewitt

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Just The Tips: Dress To Undress

Choosing your hook-up outfit may seem like something so trivial that you don't need to worry about. I mean, if the clothes are intended to be taken off and thrown on the floor, why does it matter what you're wearing? Naturally, the answer is quite simple. It effects the process of getting naked.

Before heading over for a hook-up, you should always ponder whether the clothing items you're wearing are easily removable. Nobody wants to fumble around with a button fly, so try wearing something with a zipper fly. Avoid tight pants if possible, as they'll bunch up around the ankles. Belts should only be worn when necessary, and you should make sure they unfasten with ease.

With that said, there are exceptions to this rule. I really enjoy unbuttoning a dress shirt to slowly reveal my partner's chest and tummy. But if that shirt was tight and had an insufferable amount of buttons, I might get so frustrated that I'd contemplate ripping it off. 

There's no perfect equation for getting dressed for a hook-up. Some guys might like the immediacy of another guy going commando in gym shorts. Others might like the slow process of zipping down a fly and massaging a underwear-clad bulge. However, I think we can all agree that undressing should be a sexy process... not an awkward one.

- Dewitt

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Just The Tips: Choosing The Right Lube

So many lubes! So little time! How can you choose? Though I'd highly recommend consulting a doctor or an employee at a gay (or gay-friendly) sex shop, we're going to try our best to educate you on your options. With the perfect lubricant, good sex can become better. Bad sex can become... er, slightly less bad and more slippery. So what do you say? Let's get slick, wet and ready for action!

- Dewitt

Photo credit: Fratpad

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MANHUNT Spices Things Up at the Latin Hot Party

MANHUNT recently went across the border to sunny Cancun, Mexico to party at the Latin Hot Party. From dawn 'til dusk, the music did not stop. The weather was hot, but the boys were hotter. The guys were dancing to the beats from the hottest DJs. If you missed out this year, there's always next year. In meantime, check out the pictures and videos. Muy caliente!

- Andy

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Just The Tips: Become A Rimjob Pro

Have I ever told you how much I love eating ass? It never fails to get me rock hard, and I always enjoy the sight and sound of my partner moaning and squirming in complete ecstasy. But in order to achieve that level of pleasure, I had to learn one simple lesson--rimming is much more than licking someone's butt.

Use your hands. Particularly if rimming is a prelude to fucking, your partner will be much more relaxed if you massage his ass cheeks, inner thigh and upper leg. Try a bit of light spanking. Take note if he responds to this, but don't overdo it. A finger and tongue combo may drive some guys crazy, so experiment with alternating between the two. Since it's likely that lube won't be involved, both your fingers and his hole should be wet with saliva.

Get the right position. Much like fucking, this will depend largely on preference. Personally, I like to have a guy on all fours or lying on his stomach. On the other hand, I certainly wouldn't turn down a guy who wanted to sit on my face. It's up to you!

Get creative with your mouth. Unlike blowjobs, you can use a little teeth (emphasis on a little). Try gently nibbling on your partner's cheeks, or even just simply licking them. It doesn't have to always be about the hole. Lick his taint, legs, balls, crack and so forth. Experiment with different modes of licking--flick your tongue, lap it up or keep it rigid. And it may sound silly, but try moaning or humming while your face is pressed deep in his ass. The vibrations from the sound will drive him wild!

- Dewitt

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Just the Tips: Suck It In & Wrap It Up!

It's the handiest trick my mother ever taught me. Putting on a condom on using my mouth. (Thanks, ma!)

Cock connoisseurs may be well acquainted with the art of fellatious condonus, but a number of guys never do it because they're afraid of doing it wrong or they get turned off by the idea of a condom in their mouth (like that'd be the worst thing that's ever gone in there).

Well, bust out a banana and a Trojan and suck it up! Literally.

Start by puckering your lips, then open your mouth a bit. Take the condom and place it on your fingertip so that it looks like a sombrero (meaning the rolled up brim should be upwards). This is important because it won't work the other way. (Hopefully you all know that the other way is an improper way to use a condom).

With your lips in a slightly open kiss, suck in air as you place the condom/sombrero tip in your mouth. The rim of the condom should stay over your lips. Close your lips (not our teeth!) over the tip so as to let out the air and to allow them to get slightly under the condom rim.

Now, get your banana (or another man's cock, if it's readily available-- maybe even your own if you're that flexible), and lunge forward! Place your condom covered lips on the head of his penis and force down against the condom rim with your lips as you open your mouth and take in the cock. Or banana. Make sure your lips remain tight and firmly on the appendage.

Go down as far as your gag reflex will allow, and that's it! You've now completed the hottest possible way to begin safe sex!

If you can only go a few inches down, and your man (or banana) is more than a few, use your hand (or better yet, both hands) to unwrap the rest. Use your full hand with firm, sweeping strokes so as to mimic a hand job.

Now go grab a banana! Or a big, fat dick. If you all are good this week, next week I'll teach you how to put a condom on with your asshole.

- Dr. Queerlove