Why Are We So Obsessed With The Size Of Our Dicks?

You know what – I’ll admit it. I’m not that impressive in the pants area. It’s true. J. Harvey is a grower not a shower. I’m just fine when you get me revved up, but I won’t be posting pics showing off my lack of a big, floor-grazing cock anytime soon. And you know what? I’m ok with it. And no, not because I’m a raging power bottom, catty bitches. I guess I know I got other stuff going for me in other areas. I know what to do with it when it’s hard, I give head like a champ and I’m told I have a nice ass.

However, not everyone is as secure as me. A very good friend of mine is OBSESSED with the fact that he has a small dick. It’s the weight he carries through life. I’m not sure exactly who said something in the past, whether it was a brother, a kid in the lockerroom, a trick, or an ex-boyfriend, but man, does he torture himself about his smaller than average willy. Poor guy.

And he can’t be the only one. Our society is kinda BUILT around the cock. It’s (stupidly) how a lot of men measure greatness. The person in question could be a nun-raping, koala bear-smacking douchebag, and someone would still add “he’s got a friggin’ monster in his pants, though” and everyone will nod in awe like it matters. I’m shocked that we don’t determine who should be in political office by cock size.

My Penis And Everyone Else’s is an AWESOME documentary by the very engaging Lawrence Barraclough about mens’ obsession with their cock-size. It’s the sequel to My Penis And I. In the first film, Barraclough’s topic was his own small penis, and how it had affected his life up until he came to terms with it. In the sequel, Barraclough talks to other guys about why a big dick is so damn important to our culture. You gotta check it out. In fact, you can. After the jump!

p.s. I LOVE how he keeps talking about his “dick” in that British accent.

– J. Harvey

My Penis and Everyone Else’s from Lawrence Barraclough on Vimeo.

352 thoughts on “Why Are We So Obsessed With The Size Of Our Dicks?

  1. im not entirely happy with my size, im thick but is on the smaller end of being average length. but its not for that reason i dislike it, its mainly because of proportion. im a big burly guy and my cock on my huge frame makes it seem so much smaller than it is :/

    it does make me feel self conscious about it whenever i go next to a guy at a urinal or when im at the gym but what can you do. i know i have it better than some guys so i dont complain about it.

  2. Cock size is like a bull neck ,and with all animals it comes down to size and humans being animals are just the same ,women when fertile are attracted to thick necks deep voices big Balls and big cock ,we as humans fight every natural force for the sake the of comunity,the big cock may be an arsehole but they only want his seed not live with him .watch learn and see. animals do it birds do it.(:

  3. “It’s not the quantity, it’s the quality”, “It’s not the size of the boat, it’s the motion of the ocean”. etc, etc, etc.  Other than the fact that it looks good hangin’ between some guys legs, I’ve never understood the obsession with cock size either. I’ve had little cocks that hurt like hell going in, and big cocks that went in as easy as a small cock. It’s all about wheather you REALLY know how to use it!

  4. I’ve met guys who were all upset because they had a BIG dick, as they were tortured that men were only interested in them for that and not their mind… Personally, the older I get, the less I care about a man’s size and the more I’m interested in his technique(s)

  5. Only size requirment I have from a guy is that it can reach past my gum lines. Otherwise, I’ll just suck on a pixie straw.

  6. I have a big cock and I dont care what the other guy has, if it gets past my mouth I’m happy, the size of a real man is not his cock but he himself.

  7. Which GOP candidate is packing now Herman Cain? Rick Perry or Mitt Romney? Maybe Michelle Bachman. Obama probably is bigger than McCain i’m sure.  

  8. My only problem with my smaller dick, is that I love huge asses. The ones I really go crazy for make it difficult if not impossible to fuck.

  9. This guy 3.5 inches. totally made me feel better about myself damn i thought 7 was not that big…  why didn’t he speak to males in the gay community…? 

  10. personality and attraction go first!which means that if i do not like the man[ physically/mentally and morally as well, for i am not into one hour or one day stands but seek a loving relationship] nothing will happen!!!! but there isn”t like a 8-9-10” that isn”t too thick or too hard having it inside your orrifices or just on your body even when it does not ”flow” a drop. facebook will not let me say this openly. don”t get me wrong i am very romantic and sensual as well, always monogamous

  11. it may be strange/ weird to hear this from a 65 y. old still incredibly young. but why would it be legitimate for an elderly man to seek a young woman with big breasts and not also for an elderly gay/bi to want a body builder, etc with a giant penis? considering that such a young lad may well yearn for the true love of a brilliant intellectual ”daddy” like me who can eventually offer [spiritually] what men of his age do not always have. trust and the ability to ”carry” the cub on your shoulders when he is too tired to walk. why things did not always last with me? not everyone could live with the initiator of gay-lib in israel who insists on marriage and also has a firm personality. many are still very closeted, hating themselves for being gay. it is a disaster

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