Did anyone else see Oprah interview these two wholesome adorables about their lives together? Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka are the American Dream! I say that with very little sarcasm. They’re a gay couple in a solid relationship, with successful careers, beautiful kids, and they’re both hot! They’ve got it all. The first guy to find their Manhunt profiles gets lifetime unlimited membership on the site.
Anyway, watching them interviewed together – I asked myself the age-old question. Who is topping who in this relationship? It’s usually the first thing I wonder about a hot gay couple. Well, I first wonder what they look like naked. THEN I wonder who is bottoming.
Oh, and I think Oprah is a total top. I’m just so happy I finally found an excuse to get her pic on Manhunt Daily.
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They flip-flop, clearly.
Versatile.
Who cares? :o}
David is handsomely adorable, but I’ve seen the dude queen out a couple of times. Totally the bottom.
seems diingle got the inside scoop; btw they arent a real couple is all show biz
NPH was on Howard Stern a few years back and talked about the fact that he and David flip-flop.
Ever since Doogie got interviewed by Out Magazine and he went on about how “normal” he was and how inportant it was for the gay community to have someone “normal” represent them, I thought, what a pompous little ass. NPH gets zero respect from me… Sorry. By insinuating that gay people in general are not “normal” or good enough role models for themselves… That we have to conform to someone else’s (straight) idea of what normal is, I think he’s the last person who should be a role model for us… He’s just another douche with internalized homophobia. Thanks but no thanks, Doogie.
@whocares: I am happy for both of them. They are a couple with twins. If it was all show biz then you have been watching to much harold and kumar. So, STFU!!!!!!!!!
Who cares, you bunch of stupid queens!
what ever happened to the OTHER kids Burtka had with his other bf that he dumped for NPH?
Look at the poses in the B&W bed pic, David is clearly the more feminine of the two, so if anyone’s getting bent over, it ain’t NPH
I would say looking at them they both where a strap on LOL !!!!!!!!! Queens
There are gays that act freaky and highly stereotypical and that doesn’t reflect everyone either. I see nothing wrong with someone being proud about not being a queen that has to make themselves the center of a attention and scream I’m a faggot to the world! What’s offensive is a guy who says he’s not a flamer that is and then tries to convince us otherwise! No one is blind to what you are bitch..you’re only fooling yourself! You want respect for being a queen so respect people for not wanting to be that be still are gay!
I think people need to relax and be happy with what they are. I don’t identify as butch or flamey… I’m just me and happy with that and don’t care if others have a problem with who I am. Why I don’t respect NPH is because he seems to be putting on an act of “normal” or feels he has to represent that so that straights are more okay with gays… Fuck that shit! Just be yourself… Who cares if others don’t like you… That’s their baggage.
And El Dorado – calling people freaks is pretty offensive. After all, wouldn’t you be the first to get your knickers in a twist if some straight guy called you a freak? Until we learn to respect ourselves and others, we won’t find an inner peace and acceptance…. And dare I say it… Pride.
If you really think about it, we (gay men) don’t have many normal celebrities representing us. For example George Micheal (in the park bathrooms) or even Elton John are not an average gay man in my opinion. I think it’s awesome that NPH is “normal” and willing to be a voice in our community. You might be just a little bitter Mr. Jack…
They are both bottoms, Oprah is a power top.
With the battle for same sex marriage in full force, I’m just glad to see a gay couple living their lives as they wish. There is no rule that says just because you are gay and may come off as a “queen” some of the time, that you have to reflect that part of your personality 24/7. There are many aspects to gay men in general, and for people to get bent out of shape because someone isn’t “acting the way they truly are”, doesn’t mean that is the only way they can be represented. Sometimes the gay community can be there own worst enemy. We have to stop attacking aspects of one another, whether we agree with them personally or not, and be supportive to everyone as a whole.
hahahahahahahahahahahaha.
Truf.
You do realize that “Harold and Kumar’s 3D Christmas” is a movie, right?
Haha… Not bitter at all. Just not needing to conform to other peoples idea of normal to feel better about myself. I think we can all respect each other and be happy with who we are without eorrying if we seem “normal” to other people. And NPH’s declaration that he’s somehow the standard bearer for normal seems a bit pompous. That it, that’s all. Just be happy and be yourself. Peace out.
I think everyone needs someone to look up to, and honestly, there really hasn’t been anyone like NPH to look up to for people who are like NPH… I think the gay community could use as many different types of people as possible to represent them, so that they speak to ALL gay people, not just the ones who identify with George Michale/Elton John/etc etc…ALL people in the gay community deserve someone to look up to, and the example of NPH honestly did not exist before…
and you’re kind of putting words into his mouth and jumping to conclusions from just the use of the word normal to somehow representing something that I could’ve sworn that he did not say…
this is what i personally think there top bottom relationship is like, here is a paraphrased quote from how i met your mother
Lily: “oh Neil why cant i be one top just this once?”
Ted”David”:we take turns sometimes
Ross… Read the Out article. Trust me… He talks about how his is “normal” and how important it is for him to represent the community as “normal”. I don’t mind who he is, what he identifies as or how he acts, but when he describes himself as “normal”, he implies that he’s somehow “better” and that other people who are not like him are somehow “abnormal”… Or queer/bizarre/freaks. The use of the word normal is offensive for that reason. He sets himself up as both better than others as well as saying its important to project an example of “normal”, which is another way of saying “straight-acting”, “passing”, “masc”, etc… To compliment the article, he did this whole James Dean-butch homage. It was really weak… He’s pandering to an idea of what straight people think men should act like. It’s for this reason I think it’s offensive he thinks he’s normal. It’s another way of exhibiting internalized homophobia.
The reason that people like Elton and George Michael and Boy George get pushed to the forefront is because it’s more comfortable for the general public to digest. It’s the same reason that there are so many Madea movies and why it seems every drug dealer ever in movies is Hispanic.
NPH representing some sort of American Dream is bull. Gay people shouldn’t aspire to be vanilla looking with equally vanilla humor. No one should aspire to be that.
NPH by himself I would say is a total bottom, however Burtka seems like a major bottom too, so I’d have to see they take turns forcing each other to top.