So When You Say You Just Want To Chill What Does That Mean, Exactly?

Sometimes I’m a little confused when guys say that they’re looking to chill. Because that could mean they want to hang out and have a couple of beers or whatever, or it could mean that they just want to do the nasty and they’re just too shy to come right out and say it. Either one is fine!

But when people say they want to chill my mind flashes back to the increasingly kooky to-do list that Jill Scott proposes to her man in “A Long Walk“: “Maybe we can take a cruise or listen to the Roots or maybe eat some passion fruit or maybe we can fly to the moon, or maybe we can just be silent…”

I’m just personally bad at small talk, and I’ve been off the dating market for a long time now, so the whole getting-to-know-you side of things is a lot more nerve-wracking than if somebody just says “Hey, come over and do me.”

Most of the time.

I came across BlackLove83‘s profile in a Manhunt Now newsletter, and I started to second guess myself. He looks like somebody I’d enjoy hanging out with! He smiles a lot and has thick eyebrows, which for some reason is a major turn-on for me. His eyes are pretty and I don’t generally care about a guy’s eyes. I imagine that he’s a very laid-back person, which is my favorite kind of person to hang out with.

I’d also be really happy to do it with this guy! He’s a few hours drive away from me, so I’m not actually going to ask this guy whether he’d consider doing it with me or not, but he’s versatile and in his profile he claims to have a lot of different types. That’s really refreshing, especially after reading the strict riders attached to some other guys’ profiles.

If you think BlackLove83 is for you find him here.

Lawrence

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6 thoughts on “So When You Say You Just Want To Chill What Does That Mean, Exactly?

  1. He lives in my old stomping grounds. Nice but very quiet town to say the least.

    Good looking guy but I would say by the lack of dick size listed and lack of nudes he is definitely looking for more than a romp in the bedroom.

    Not saying he wouldn’t do it but it appears he wants Boy friend material first over a quicky.

  2. I think when one says looking 2 chill they’re just looking 2 have a good time couple of beers hanging out play pool et…et…and whatever happens happens
    They’re not looking for anything more complicated than that .

  3. i don’t like being offered to “chill.”
    😀

    i do like being offered to “hang out.”
    or, to “hang out and then maybe screw around later on.”

    on adam4adam,
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    which appears to be more inclusive of the black members of “our” LGBTTQ “community” (perhaps-in-part, also because a4a does not impel a paid membership, in order to enjoy the luxury of unlimited daily e-mailing and unrestricted profile-viewing),
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    i don’t get offers to “chill” from the same guys who repeatedly-check my profile, yet never say a word to me, but those same lurkers magically seem to find their voices once i post “sexier” pics of m’self; thus. my own conclusion that chill can have a sexual undertone

    which is why i don’t entertain offers to “chill”..
    ..from guys i don’t happen to want to bone.
    😀

  4. I think BLACKjackHAMMER has it right. Chill and hangout are pretty synonymous on a site like Manhunt. Other guys might say, “let’s see what kind of chemistry we have, before we decide how we are going to act on it”

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