Hypothetically, you’ve met the man of your dreams on Manhunt. He calls you up after a rough workout and asks, “Should I shower before I come over?” Now you’ve got to make a decision–do you want to hook up with a man who smells like his own sweat? Or would you prefer a man who smells like a bar of soap?
For a moment, ignore the fact that your dream man would already know the answer to this question. That’s not the point of this debate! When it all comes down to it, would you rather have a sexual partner who’s funky or fresh?
– Dewitt
I would tell him to come round and then we would shower together. duh.
That’s a tough one! I want to say skip the shower if he is THAT hot cause sweat can be very sexy but then again there are a few things I won’t do to a man unless he is fresh from the shower (e.g. eat ass) so take the shower……just don’t put any smelly cologne on!
take the shower — the sweat we’ll work up together will be more than enough to satisfy any olfactory cravings!
Take a shower… I’ll make you sweat later.
If they were clean before the workout then the sweat would not smell, it’s the interaction of the sweat with the bacteria on the skin that causes the stink, so it depends
skip the shower. if he really needs it when he gets here, we’ll take one together.
Shower here or shower there!! But no below the waist action unless freshly showered!!
Fresh!
My boyfriend showers pre-gym, so when he comes home all sweaty and aggressive, he tends to get his way if he’s horny. Not that I’m complaining.
Skip it. If he’s too smelly, I’d entice him to shower together.
Is a personal thing. After a work out, I have to shower. But then, I tend to sweat more than the average guy. I agree with a couple of the posts, work up a sweat while you are getting hot and heavy in the action.
LOVE a ripe sweaty guy, get tired of guys drenched in cologne or tasting like a factory fresh product off the shelf so santized you feel like your licking a hoispital floor, give me the ripe, musky guys with the ball sweat, gets me high and gives them a better blow job
I agree with some of the other posters on this one….two words…SHOWER SEXXX…then we can clean each other in all the right places for round two in bed, (ie: rimming)
if we’re gonna be doing the nasty, there’s no point in showering, really. So I’d tell him to skip it, but if we were going somewhere then yea, I’d say at least freshen up.
Shower up! I like my guy clean.
ripe, sweaty, REAL man scent….no better aphrodisiac!
I love natural “man scent”…but it can be taken to the extreme…I prefer, no DEMAND, that a guy be CLEAN…I want to have my mouth and tongue absolutely everywhere…however, no deodorants, perfumes/colognes, or other artificial scents…I want a guy’s natural phermones ever present…woof…
Fresh! Then work up a good heavy sweat, and shower again…together.
Both… depends on mood.
Shower, for heaven’s sake! I like the smell and taste of squeaky-clean skin, not sweat!
I’m not sucking your sweaty musky balls…. Take a shower!
NO shower.
funky funky
i would want him raw. with his natural body fragrance. mmmmm
lickable
geez, Dewitt must be running out of assinine questions to ask! LOL
what’s next? do you prefer chocolate or vanilla? 😛
Yh… I prefer clean…
I’d tell him to rinse his hole off with soap when he got to my place. That’s the only place that needs attention, and even then only if he’s dirty. Sweat, baby sweat. Rub your smelly ass and balls all over me. Love to be reminded that I’m fucking a man.
Hate to tell you, hardlyhere, but if that’s what it takes to make you feel like you are screwing a man, then you have been screwing some pretty hairy women!
Hahaha, that’s too funny…people on here crack me up 😛
I absolutely despise the stench of sweat. It sounds like something rotting, it’s disgusting and very much not sexy.
That said, I don’t require colognes and perfumes either, just the fresh, clean smell of someone who just showered.
Definitely do not waste time or water to clean up. Men stink and have a smell that mother nature has given us. It tell all others who we are> It is natural to have a scent.
There’s a difference between a scent and Body Odor. lol
for me, there are two and a quarter paths to take:
• shower before meeting up
• shower upon arrival (sometimes preferred, especially when the traveling time was long in duration)
• “shower” together, but try not to do anything ‘heavy’ while in there
i can ‘respect’ the choice of those individuals who like It funky, but i don’t think i can ever hold an especially high opinion of said people, either..
..not that i’d bother my pretty little head for worrying over their sex lives, of course.
I agree Brian, I Like a man to smell and taste like a man; ‘Yeah Dude, those are ma balls, they look like balls, smell like balls and taste like balls, deal with it’
Thats part of what intimacy is supposed to be about Charlie Brown. Unmasking & enjoying.
Having ‘sanatized sex’ seems a bit of a contradiction. If Im about to eat your ASS or peel back your foreskin I expect it to taste like your cock or your ass – not cherry blossoms or plastic gloves.
When I request the guy comes over unshowered, musky and ripe and he does, I devoure him from head to toe and with little inhibitions or taboos the pleasure is at its max… I LOVE IT – (lifts musky armpit)
personally i find it extremely erotic to shower with someone, and more fun to lick the water off, so as far as im concerned i would want to shower with him and use it as a foreplay, then shower again to clean up. YUM
Either way is good, if he is the man of your dreams why should it matter?
Now if we are discussing the eroticism of showering together, then I’m there!!! lol I love to shower together! Love to soak up his cock and stroke it. Then rinse it off and work it in my mouth… MMMMM. lol Sounds great!
SHOWER TIME TOGETHER FO SHO!
Start clean and fresh and end up manly funky.
First shower and then get sexy-sweaty 😉 !
shower, of course. it’s the polite thing to do. or atleast wash in areas where my tongue/mouth would most likely end up.
wash. that. shit!
soapless showers are good enough so long as you use a nice towel… 😛
Shower! Just don’t wear any cologne or soaps that leave a residue. I want to take you, not the soap.
Like many have already said there are things you just don’t do unless you they’ve showered.
Fresh. Always fresh.
I think its a bit off when my bf tries to have sex with me when we get home from work…let alone after the gym…
Sex sweat. HOT
Gym sweat. NOT
All depends upon the funk. I love the smell of a man’s balls when they aren’t freshly showered. Pit smell is a bit harder to take however…and in some cases impossible to take!
I would have him come over and go for it or shower together , depending on the severity of it…lol
a man who is funky and covered with the smell of patchouli oil is amazeballs! makes me cum harder and faster! peace and love from san francisco!
Oof. Coming home from the gym, let’s go.
Just smelling nasty? No thanks.
I would ask him to come over. If too funky then shower together. Some men, to me, have funky aroma to just go at what we want and others are too strong. Either way, we are both off to bed. LOL
Skip it there is nothing in this world better then the scent of man …. UM!!!!
I would want him to shower before he came over.
I would say a quick shower, no heavy soap or body spray or cologne; then off we are, and of course heavier shower afterwards. 😀
baby boy gotta shower first! TRUST I will give him plenty of reason to be hot and sweaty once he gets here. being the man of my dreams he would know not to come smellin like a bottle of cologne, but clean and fresh! 😀
It depends on the guy honestly. Some men smell (and taste) good with a little sweat, and some just make ya wanna yack. My dream man would be sweet with sweat.
Fresh the first time… funky if there’s a second connection.
Well depends on his chemistry – I love the smell of a man, a sweaty man, but there’s a fine line between a manly smell and simply odiferous. However, I would never tell him to shower first, I would tell him to get his ass over, don’t lose any of the manly scent, then we both hop in the shower as I clean every inch of his body … and may just soil it and have to clean it again before we leave the shower. Love to help each other go from funky to fresh.
I like my men smelling rank and manly. Don’t shower. Come over with a smelly man butt and rancid pits. Love the way men smell naturally. Rip his briefs offa him when he shows up and take a good big sniff. Not all men smell good when they’re dirty and sweaty but the ones who do are boneriffic.
Get him over without a shower – if he smells that bad shower together…a bit of funk is good fresh sweat is hot!
Fresh all tha way baby!!!
i whud like him 2 smell funkey so that i can co and have the shower with him
I have to agree, depends on how the guy smells. Some guys smell really hot, others smell absolutely gross. If it’s the first time, Id probably want them to shower first.