It’s a bad idea. You know exactly what I’m talking about. The guy you’re chatting with wants to have a threesome. Or maybe it’s the reverse situation, and you’re the one who wants to get tag-teamed. The desire is so high that you eventually compromise–“I’ll come over, and we’ll look for a third together”.
Generally, I applaud a good ménage à trois. But do you really want to be looking for a third when there’s a perfectly good dick sitting in front of you? It’s almost insulting to the other individual, as if you’re saying they’re not enough for you. Even if you do start playing before the other guy shows up, it’s going to feel like he’s interrupting something that’s already in motion. No one wants sloppy seconds, right?
Perhaps I’m not articulating this well enough, but I firmly stand by this advice. If a threeway’s not happening on any given day, don’t try to force it. Let it happen organically, like a situation where you’re chatting with two guys simultaneously then you suddenly realize you’re all attracted to one another. What do you think? Is it cool to invite someone over and then look for a third?
– Dewitt
Photo credit: Broke Straight Boys
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I think it’s okay, to a point. Spontaneity is one thing. It can be fun, erotic and has almost a dangerous feel to it that enhances the sex. But, on the other hand, if you already know who you’re with and are fine with each other, but just want some added fun, shy not?
that guy in the blue has a nice pitstain going
If you’re looking for a threeway, you should already have one of the other parties in mind before you even begin. Finding one and then looking for another is too much work.
Yes. Maybe you’re both just really “in the mood” for a threesome.
What’s the harm is just saying so? Gay culture is about sexual openness and expression, after all.
As long as you negotiate beforehand what will happen if you *cannot* find Mister Third, it’s all good I think.
Like many other things, doing three-ways, group-sex, etc., is a fetish and quite a few guys are into that. The thing is, when cruising for something like that, make it clear up-front that this will be more than just dinner-for-two.
Sex is a game for two.
I LOVE sloppy seconds and personally love coming in on two guys and swapping places with the top!
3somes are hot if its no strings attached between all 3. Other wise it could be a lot of drama.
Side note love that my friends pics wer used for this 🙂
Is it just me or does the guy at the back in the bonus pic look a bit like Robert Pattison? I’m not a fan of his, but that dude looks a bit like him.
miscommunication online lead a guy who wanted to be with us in a threesome but duude… Why didnt you say something more like chat with me or something give me ur email cause i just chatted with the guy on squirt and bam i get to fuck but the other guy who wanted to join missed out beacause of not enough contact info he blames me for leaving him out when it was really his fault i didnt know how to reach him…
Friend, eh… Hmm. You lucky bastard!
realy hot guys oh man i would play withall 3