This advice goes out to anyone who lets other men play with their ass, whether you’re a top, bottom or something in between. It’s actually pretty simple! If a guy is doing a good job as he licks, fingers or fucks your ass, push your cheeks back on him a little.
We should place emphasis on the “a little” part. While it’s one thing to let your partner know you really want him, it’s another to thrust so hard that you knock him off the bed or chip a tooth. Plus, most tops will agree that a little aggression is good from a bottom, but too much can lead into “bossy bottom” territory.
However, if you sense your partner’s okay with a bit of direction and prodding, feel free to get even more into it. Push his face into your ass! Tell him to go faster or harder! Reach around and grab his ass, as you pull him deeper inside of you… Do we really need to go on?
– Dewitt
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Good advice!! And have no fear to go further. I love when I’m fucking a guy that he press my dick all inide, pelvis to pelvis, pulling me grabbing my ass, and I love to do it when I bottom. MOst of guys I’m with don’t rim, but loves to get rimmed. And I love when these guys practically don’t let me breath as they push my face deep into their assholes. Sum have even sat on my face and I can hardly control myself to not cum yet when all I can do is licking their holes as my hands grabs their legs so they won’t get up and keep their ass on my mouth!
Best advice ever. Real good bottoms let you know that they like it and that they want it… And there’s nothing manlier than a bottom who demands cock. Makes fucking them all the hotter!
Good advice…”Do we really need to go on?” Yes you really do. Advice like this should be explicitly defined since, you know, I assume you write these advice columns for inexperienced people.
On another note, Nick is fucking hot.
not all btms instinctively know to roll with the top’s rock.. I’m glad you wrote this Dewitt. And the demonstration btm you chose is perfect.. hand in speedos here in Australia
On the other hand, I actually prefer light and slow tongue & cock play with my ass to hard and aggressive action; drives me wild. It actually makes me tingle all over. It’s like when you chew your food more slowly and let it go all around your tongue and palate before swallowing, you savor more of the flavors, textures and tastes from the food and the experience becomes a lot more sensual and pleasurable. Although fun at times especially when I’m in the mood for it, harsh play more often than not provides more pain than pleasure for me. Most tops I find are the opposite and derive more pleasure from the act of aggression itself.
On the other hand, I actually prefer light and slow tongue & cock play with my ass to hard and aggressive action; drives me wild. It actually makes me tingle all over. It’s like when you chew your food more slowly and let it go all around your tongue and palate before swallowing, you savor more of the flavors, textures and tastes from the food and the experience becomes a lot more sensual and pleasurable. Although fun at times especially when I’m in the mood for it, harsh play more often than not provides more pain than pleasure for me. Most tops I find are the opposite and derive more pleasure from the act of aggression itself.
Well, it’s been over a year since some young twink tried to fuck my ass, but he didn’t know what he was doing, so I had to go to plan B & forgo the experience. But I do remember from many years ago when my ex-bf (slut) Joseph would fuck me with his smaller & thinner than average dick. Luckily, I never had to prep much to take him in. But he was pretty good at what he did. I always liked to start out slow or even make the first round nice & easy. But come 2nd round, I liked it ramped up a bit. I guess given Joseph’s limits, he never seemed to be able to get it deep enough for me, so I would lock my legs around his waist & use my heels to grind him deeper into me. I guess that made me a rather aggressive bottom, but it made for great sex. We rarely did it doggy-style, so I never was into pushing back on him…except for those mornings when he woke me up by slipping his cock up inside me for a morning wake-up fuck. Now, that was the way to wake up! Ha!
Dr Feelgood…right there if you…light strokes and being teased along time with a dick back there gets me going to the point of full body orgasms. After long foreplay having a nice meaty dick deep inside with no thrusting, but rotation of my partner’s hips is AMAZING…
Being a dom top i like my bottom bois to be alive…some action n movement on their part…get into it…verbal n directional…hott as fuck…hott pics btw…
ho ho ho ho wooof
Communication is the key to all successful sexual interludes. If you can’t make the communication verbal then body movement is the next best thing. I’ve learned that telling another guy what you like done and not done and then letting him figure out how he does that is the best thing. Telling him HOW to do it does become bossy. But the key is to be clear when he’s doing something I don’t like…”not so hard” “not so fast” whatever and then enjoying the ride. From the other side, as a top, don’t just lay there and hope for the best…moan, groan, make some noise, point if you have to but be a part of the process.
I taught that to a guy just last week ! Now he calls himself a power bottom ! And, I’m loving it, LOL
Right on, Michael !
Communication AND, knowing your own body WITH CONFIDENCE, is what makes it all worth it 😉
I’m not into baby-face dudes, but this one can definitely knock my door to sell cookies and I’d buy the whole batch!
He looks to be 17 years old. Too young for me.