
Generally, our Have You Ever posts lean towards the racier side, but we're going to take a moment today to talk about something serious. Even though World AIDS Day may be behind us, it's still AIDS Awareness Month. And honestly, there's no wrong time to have this sort of discussion.
Rather than present information and scary statistics straight out of a pamphlet, I'm going to take this opportunity to share one of my stories about getting tested. My first time was when I was eighteen, and I was absolutely terrified. I hadn't ever consciously had unprotected sex, but there were a few occasions where condoms had broken and you can never be one-hundred percent sure, you know?
I had been regularly hooking up with a man in his thirties, and he actually got pretty upset when he found out I had never been tested. I should clarify that it was a productive anger. He immediately offered to take me to a local gay and lesbian health clinic, and I accepted his offer.
Frankly, I didn't know what to expect. I'm extremely scared of needles, so I shuddered at the very thought of blood being taken. Would I faint in the middle of the clinic, and more importantly--would my life be changed forever by the results?
At the time, I wasn't aware that rapid HIV testing had become available. They sat me down in a room, discussed my sexual habits and then sent me off for a little prick in the finger. "That's it?" I asked the nurse incredulously. And twenty minutes later, they had my results.
I was thrilled to hear the words "negative" come out of the nurse's mouth, but she warned me of the six month window between the time of HIV infection and the production of measurable antibodies. I marked my calendar to get tested again in the near future, and left the office feeling extremely relieved.
Well, that's pretty much my story! I'll leave out the details about my older friend and I "celebrating" afterwards (with a condom, but of course), because they're not particularly relevant to this post. Hopefully, this'll prompt a few of you to share your stories too, but I'm not pushing or anything. Oh, and if you're looking for more information on getting tested or finding a testing center near you, be sure to head over to Manhunt Cares.
- Dewitt
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