Have You Ever: Fallen For A Straight Guy?

During my sophomore year of college, I lived across the hall from this ridiculously hot straight dude. He was so attractive that one of my female friends would regularly visit my room, just in the hopes that he’d pass by in his towel. Sure, this may sound a little pathetic. But I can’t even explain this guy’s appeal in words… He was kind of a sex god.

See that picture of Cody Cummings above? My hallmate was just as hot as him, if not hotter. He’d parade down the hallway fresh out of the shower, with droplets of water running down his muscular torso. It was almost as if he knew we wanted to stare at him!

Whenever he’d ask for a favor, I was always willing to oblige his request. Can I use your microwave to cook my chicken nuggets? Sure, I’d say! Do you mind if I print out my two-hundred page paper on your printer? Absolutely, whatever you say!

And then it all came crashing down when my aforementioned female friend hooked up with him. I knew he was straight. Frankly, I’d hear him making girls moan, and it’d turn me on a little. But when someone I knew put her lips on his dick, it was absolutely over for me. It became clear that I actually had a crush on him. And it was entirely one-sided and unhealthy.

Well, that’s my story! Have you ever had a time when you’ve fallen for a straight guy? Leave a comment with your experiences, and feel free to elaborate on all the juicy details…

– Dewitt

Photo credit: Cody Cummings

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51 thoughts on “Have You Ever: Fallen For A Straight Guy?

  1. Oh yeah, I sure did. A couple of straight friends were major crushes for me. One is a wiry little guy, nothing but skin & muscle. He was also my best friend through high school. Now he’s a Marine Gunny. Sigh. The other guy I actually roomed with for a few months. Hot little latino guy, great smooth ass, awesome muscles (gotta thing for little guys). Always told me he had a huge dick, and I can’t tell you how many times I offered to suck it for him!

  2. I have fallen for my best friend. He’s a hot straight guy married to my wife’s friend. I wonder if he knows. He’s cute has a great body, has blonde hair, blue eyes, and a great accent. I start getting hard when he walks into the room. We were drunk one time and ended up going swimming naked in the ocean for about three minutes.

  3. Definitely. I was completely in love with one of the Resident Advisors in my freshmen dorm in college. He was so gorgeous, but even more so he was just the nicest guy. I professed my attraction to him, but of course he was straight. What was worse though is the fact that he was so confident in his own heterosexuality that he had no issues with my attraction to him. We ended up becoming good friends because we had the same major and had a lot of classes together. I fell hopelessly in love with him and wasn’t able to get over it until he graduated. I hate to think what kind of relationships I missed out on having while I was completely focused on this unrequited love.

  4. Same thing as Tom in STL- Had the major hots for my RA in college dorm… OMG
    He had black hair, brown eyes, great smile, hairy chest/ ass and sizeable dick, of which I somehow always timed my shower time to his. When he bent over and showed his hairy ass, I would get instant hard-0n! Would have sucked his dick if ever offered, but never happened 🙁
    Mick, if your reading this… am hard as I write… gotta go now! 🙂

  5. hey he is hot … and yes the thought of my first crush was on a straight guy …. boy what memories!

    question for you all you …. luv my men shaved … and luv to be shaved … looking at the pics of Cody … is he naturally smooth or shaved? What do you all recommend for shaving … either pubic area or other wise?

  6. Most of my current straight male friends were at one time or another the object of my desire. I never told them though. I kissed one once during a cottage trip where we were playing a drinking game. That was that.

  7. I fell hard for a straight guy during college. He was my roommate for three years and closest friend throughout those years. It was of course on sided and soemtimes completely unhealthy because I would go after guy after guy to get over the crush but at the end of the night we shared a room and he was the one i said good night to.

    I remember the moment I realized I had a crush. Some guy was nagging me to hook up and I was like I have a boyfriend – telling him my roommate was my bf. He asked what was he like and i was like, He has the nicest eyes I’ve ever seen. They sparkle. And the guy goes, “You must really like him if you’re talking about his eyes.” And I was like, “SHIT. I Think I do.”

    About a week after I came out to the chapter there was a little awkwardness to us because I think he peiced together how I was feeling about him. And it took like 2 weeks and a lot of beer for us to get back to our friendship and not let any awkwardness come between us.

    We’re still close friends. Talk on the phone. Hang out. But it’s weird to know he still has this control over me. Like I’m still ready to drop on my knees if he’d ask me to – as much as I’ve tried to move on.

  8. I fell hard for a straight guy during college. He was my roommate for three years and closest friend throughout those years. It was of course on sided and soemtimes completely unhealthy because I would go after guy after guy to get over the crush but at the end of the night we shared a room and he was the one i said good night to.

    I remember the moment I realized I had a crush. Some guy was nagging me to hook up and I was like I have a boyfriend – telling him my roommate was my bf. He asked what was he like and i was like, He has the nicest eyes I’ve ever seen. They sparkle. And the guy goes, “You must really like him if you’re talking about his eyes.” And I was like, “SHIT. I Think I do.”

    About a week after I came out to the chapter there was a little awkwardness to us because I think he peiced together how I was feeling about him. And it took like 2 weeks and a lot of beer for us to get back to our friendship and not let any awkwardness come between us.

    We’re still close friends. Talk on the phone. Hang out. But it’s weird to know he still has this control over me. Like I’m still ready to drop on my knees if he’d ask me to – as much as I’ve tried to move on.

  9. I only fall for a straight guy maybe, oh….. 99% of the time. The other 1% I remain single because I’m not the gay guy’s type! LOL

  10. Can Mr.Cummings technically be “straight” if he gets sucked and rimmed by guys?

    Hes straight all right, as in straight to the bank with this pretense of his, lol.

  11. I knew an ‘black Irish’ 11/10 hottie golf pto who’s smell was insanely sexy. He would stay in my bed when he was in my city. He liked to kiss me. And 100% straight he said. But after a camping trip when I could not keep my hands off him – to no avail – I had to stop seeing him all together. It’s OK tho, cause he didn’t make it to the big tiem – maybe there’s still hope, right? Hi Iain, if you are out there!! tee hee

  12. In high school I had never done more than just notice when a straight guy was attractive, I never had really openly pursued any male, so I tried not to pay attention. It wasn’t until my senior year that I developed a friendship with a guy who was a friend of a friend, and we became really close. He was tall, probably 6’4 with curly brown hair and the nicest brown eyes in the world. That was also it — he may have been the nicest guy in the world. We wound up hanging out all the time, whether it was going to parties or going to movies or whatever, never just the two of us, but still, it never helped the situation. One of the most frustrating aspects about him, was that he was also a nymphomaniac, and because of that was not ever afraid to show physical affection… even if said affection never went past hugging. Well one night at my friends’ hot tub party, we all thought it would be fun to get naked, and well, we did. Turns out he’s also hung like a horse, and was probably a good 8 to 9 inches when hard. That basically set me off, and later that night, when we all went to sleep he, I and a few others were in the same bed, and I made the mistake of trying to fondle him… horribly embarrassing but he didn’t react that night, instead I get a text from him the next day asking me “What [I] was doing last night” I just explained to him I was drunk, and didn’t know, and blah blah blah. He passed it off as such, and even told me that it would be shitty if I ever let something like that stop me from hanging out with him, so I didn’t. The friendship progressed further, and we’d see each other ALL the time, we didn’t have any of the same classes, but outside of school I’d always try to make the time to see him. We’d go to parties, and by this point he would actually CUDDLE me. I mean, in bed, with his arms around me, and mine around his, and our bodies touching and turning me on like nothing ever had before. He also liked to sleep in his boxers (I always left my pants on for fear of a “spontaneous” erection), which never helped because his scent was intoxicating, like, actually. I had never noticed how a guys smell could be arousing, but having his near naked body sprawled over me like that, how could I not? So it now became clear to me that he liked to cuddle, and obviously, I did too. Every party, every time we’d be at the same place and sleeping, I would make the effort to sleep next to him, so we could cuddle. More times than not it would happen, and I’d just be in awe. Eventually, it got to the point where I’d be thinking about him all the time, and not just his body. I actually fell in love, and this is something I’d never experienced before. I’d go through the motions of everyday with him on my mind CONSTANTLY. It took until after a late summer camping trip for me to realize that I needed to just stop seeing him, because it was turning into a literal obsession. I did, for a while, and blamed it on work, but felt so compelled to tell him, that one night while we were talking online, I told him. I told him how I felt, and asked if he felt the same. I knew of course, he didn’t, but if there was even an ounce of curiosity I was going to take full advantage of it. He wound up telling me he was into girls, and that I was “the last person he’d ever want to hurt” and that he was sorry. Obviously, my heart was broken, because it was the actual affirmation of something I had already known for a long time. But did he have to be so nice and good about it? Anyway, by this point I knew that I just had to leave it alone, and move on. So for the next 4 months I did. I cut off all contact with him, deleted my facebook, never replied to his phone calls or texts. I never saw him, and eventually just stopped seeing that entire group of friends altogether (though that is somewhat of a different story), and here I am, with a new group of friends, and a more or less new life, still pining over him while trying to get over him. Will it ever happen? I have no idea, but I’m just hoping that time and distance will work their magic and hopefully aid my heart’s recovery.

    (Oh, and I’m not sure if I included this or not, but this all happened just this past year. 2010, I hate you.)

  13. He’s shaved. He does the hairy thing sometimes to. I like men the way they are, but I appreciate shaved men to. the best way is to shave in the shower. If I’m shaving I usually use a buzzer first so i don’t dull out my Mach 3. Then in the shower I’ll either use Nivea sensitive for men. or a good moisturizing shampoo. suprisingly the shampoo is better because it cleans and moisturizes the skin around your body when you shave it. finally I condition the skin and let it sit. It makes you smooth as a baby’s bottom…. or just as smooth as a bottom.

  14. I had a couple really hot, straight roommates in college. Never was in love with them but didn’t mind seeing them in a towel. It would turn me on so much to hear them fucking their girlfriends. One time I even jerked off to it. Is that bad?

  15. I have never fallen for one, but there have been some crushes. The worst is a close friends husband. She knows I think hes attractive, but hes kind, funny, and over all just a really cool guy.

  16. During my student career i fell in love with the most beautiful 6.5 blonde haired, blue eyed, thin lipped twink fresh outta the army.

    He studied the same course as me and in our first year we were in a performance together where both he and i played lovers, there was a kissing scene and he wasnt hesitant at all, he would kiss me everynight without flinch and I, quite frankly, didnt mind, kissing a man as gorgeous as he is without the influence of the extremities seemed lovely. since then i had done nothing but obsess and experience a number of wet dreams about this wonderful man.

    the problem came in my second year we ended up staying together in a massive commune. EVERYDAY he would go for a swim in his tight-fitting lycra’s and i would oogle him from my window… he would almost show off in front of my window knowing i was watching. Then, after his showers he would walk into my room, completely naked under the guise of being completely comfortable with nudity, wanting me to cream his back. we would get drunk at house parties, skinny dip, he’d show physical affection, we’d kiss at parties and he’d chalk it up to us having done it before.

    i had fallen completely obsessed and in love with a man who, with out a doubt did not love e back, well in a way that i wanted AND i KNEW he was completely leading me on.

    One night, i sat him down to speak about it, he laughed and said he didn’t mind, also that he wasn’t gay or anything just… comfortable. and that this shouldn’t change anything between us, well it did… i had to change it before i went totally insane…

    he still messages and wants to see me but i ignore him and blame other commitments…

    straight men suck… only wish they were sucking me…

    Leather and Lace Lovers!

  17. I was a jr in high school, and that year there was this tall, blonde, muscular guy in my gym class, Benjamin Hall (sigh). We got to know each other and one day he came up behind me, grabbed me around my mid chest and lifted me up in the air. When he touched me and felt sparks go through me and I realized how I felt about him. It was hard to hide my feelings from him, but he moved back to… Indiana, I think – and thank God. It would have been hell to have spent another year in his presence and held all that in.

  18. This is the story of my fucking life! haha …but not so funny, quite horrible really. I went to a GAY club in Colorado and the one guy I was like YES that’s him…straight. Oh fuck off really straight man in the gay bar…sigggh. Waiting for that gay man to break the spell, OH Romeo hurry the fuck up. 🙂

    btw your college story sounds JUST like what we did we had a sex god that would walk out the shower stand in our doorway and talk to us. AND he knew we were gay. We had a hallway that was pretty much half gay. And as pathetic and stalker as it sounds one of our friends knew the boys shower schedule and sometimes we’d wait to see an oh so sexy man walk out in his towel.

  19. This is the story of my fucking life! haha …but not so funny, quite horrible really. I went to a GAY club in Colorado and the one guy I was like YES that’s him…straight. Oh fuck off really straight man in the gay bar…sigggh. Waiting for that gay man to break the spell, OH Romeo hurry the fuck up. 🙂

    btw your college story sounds JUST like what we did we had a sex god that would walk out the shower stand in our doorway and talk to us. AND he knew we were gay. We had a hallway that was pretty much half gay. And as pathetic and stalker as it sounds one of our friends knew the boys shower schedule and sometimes we’d wait to see an oh so sexy man walk out in his towel.

  20. i once fell for a straight guy in boarding school. he tore out my heart. after our first and only kiss i was overwhelmed with the realization that I was gay. that moment changed me so deeply and i was, holding him in my arms ready to except myself.

    he did not. said he was straight, though we did in some way love each other, the lack of its sexual reciprocity hurt deeply.

    and he was straight. though we did both love eachother deep down inside i new i wanted him in a way he could not

  21. What Cam said – 99% of the men I’m ever attracted to are straight. Maybe I need to move to an area with better gays (I live in Southern California, in a FUCKING MORMON/SDA COMMUNITY), but homos just don’t do it for me. Rarely. Ever?

  22. [insert generic comment about how cody cummings is gay because he can stay hard when a dick is rubbing against his ass and other questionable scenarios]

  23. Did and still have a crush on the man after 30 years. We meet while stationed at Marine Corps Air Station El Toro, CA in 1980. We’ve been best friends ever since, I was even the best man at his one and failed try at marriage. One highlight though, we did swap BJs one time and i came in his mouth! What a night that was. I might have been too much for him because he moved on for a while but, we talk and email on a regular basis. I miss being around my Manny!

  24. @ Ethan,

    Yours is the story that got me. I wish I could help you deal with the pain, but alas there is not. I’ve heard people say that “time will heal your wound” and I sincerely hope that will be the case.

    I don’t have a story like yours to share, nor have I ever been in love with a straight man but I did experience a very painful and unpleasant ending to relationship that I thought was going along swimmingly. I know what a broken heart feels like.

    Give yourself the time to grieve and work through all the emotions that pop-up. Then allow yourself the time to “find” yourself again and be happy with the person you are and with all the loving and positive people in your life. When the time is right [when you are ready] you will love again. I did! You will NEVER forget what happened but you can give it a place, put it to rest and move on.

    I hope you’ll find some comfort in my words. Be well and all my best wishes for your future.

  25. Well I believe that I can add Cody to my list of str8 guys that I’ve fallen in love with. Damn! But in my personal life there are more. You know, we all want what we can’t have. I used to have a group of friends that I would go out with on the weekends. One of the guys in the group had str8 friend who was 6’4″, built like a God, stunning and he would show up every few months for a night out with us. He was so sweet and open (even to me hanging on him) but totally str8. I can’t even recall the number of times I’ve fantasized about finding him in my bed (more specifically with his cock in my ass)…or vice-versa, but alas, only just a fantasy. Sigh…fortunately I haven’t obsessed about him in a few years.

  26. I can’t say that I have. Straight guys do nothing for me sexually. If I see a straight guy in a gay bar I just assume he’s there with a gay/lesbian friend or he’s there because his girl drug him along. If I find a guy that’s hot and there’s a possibility he’s gay my ass puckers and dick gets hard for him, but the instant that I find out he’s straight I lose all interest in him other than seeing if I can out drink or throw a baseball faster than him.

  27. My biggest crush on a straight dude was this guy at my gym. Our schedules synced up perfectly and we always ended up in the showers at the same time every morning. He was my exact, perfect type. Very tall, lean, muscular, but not too muscular. We even had the same first name. This man was in a realm of hotness all his own, and I got to shower along side him every morning for nearly a year, and I never, ever got sick of looking at him. He knew I checked him out all the time, and it made him uncomfortable, but he never said anything to me, (though he mentioned it to other guys in the gym). If you ask me, if it REALLY bothered him that I checked him out, he would have said something to me at some point, but he never did. I think he enjoyed the attention.

  28. As I have no gaydar, that’s all I fall for: straight hotties. And since I’m not even the slightest bit attractive, I’ve always failed at even getting a shot with them. Pathetic, but it’s true. I fantasize every night to get me to fall asleep about having some hot guy, and it’s always some straight guy I met or know.

  29. One of my best friends from my senior year of hs, I knew he was straight and I knew I had a crush on him. Blond muscled military type; jrotc then, now a marine. I’d practically do anything for him, but it wasn’t a particularly unhealthy relationship. I helped him with his gf, and we hung out as friends. But if he wanted me to do something all he had to do was turn though big blue puppy dog eyes on me and I was lost, hahaha. He’s the first person I ever told about me being gay actually, and he convinced me to tell my parents. All in all I don’t know how I would have survived my senior year w/o him, kinda think of him like a brother now. He was a good guy hope he stays safe over in Afghanistan.

  30. All the time. I usually fall for a straight guy and nothing happens except we spend so much time together that I realize we are just friends and then I fall out of like. Pretty much how a lot of my straight guy friendships have been formed.
    Any advice would be amazing!!

  31. the better question might be, what gay/bi-sexual fellow hasn’t ever fallen for a straight guy?

    i’d had three major crushes on presumably heterosexual men.

    all three of these guys had deeply (and perhaps permanently) affected me.

    🙂

    all of this took place when i was young and extremely dumb (i’m only “somewhat dumb,” right now).
    i think i’ve made a pledge to myself not to get so emotionally immersed with another straight guy ever again.
    i mean, of course i can lust after him, but if i can’t even get into his pants (much less get him to desire me as much as i, for Him), then i’ll try my best to let cold logic intervene.

  32. I do personal grooming professionally, and for shaving, I also HIGHLY recommend using cold water to rinse your blade (and if you can tolerate it to rinse your body in order to facilitate lather). The cold water helps cut down on razor burn, makes the skin tighten and raises the hairs. Always use a brand new blade when shaving the body (especially the sensitive pubic areas) and a feather-light stroke over the area to be shaved. You can make multiple strokes, but if you press down with the blade you are more likely to cause a nick.

  33. Oh painful memories, the only strait guy I ever actually fell for is my best friend still. We have been since the fourth grade. I was always the first person he came to with a problem and helped him countless times. I would have to say that I still love him and probably always will. He either has no idea or knows and just doesn’t say. It gets harder to hide it every time I see him. Thankfully he goes to a different college.

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