Ear Play: Hot or Not?

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You just brought a guy home, and you're making out in your bedroom. He starts kissing your neck, and gradually makes his way up to your ear. He begins by with some light nibbling, blowing on it and then proceeds to flick his tongue around the exterior. After testing the waters a little, he moves on to slightly harder biting and more aggressive licking. Now he's practically making out with your ear.

At what point (if any) in the above scenario are you turned off? In my early years of gay sex, I met a few guys who would go crazy over ear play, almost turning to jello in my hands. I quickly learned that this wasn't the case for everyone, and the man with saliva all over his ears wasn't too happy about contributing to my education.

– Dewitt

31 thoughts on “Ear Play: Hot or Not?

  1. i’m a fan of earplay as well. i like to gently massage a guy’s ears as he’s giving me oral sex.
    I also like having my ears nibbled when i’m making out with a guy

  2. It’s weird how diverse the sensitive areas are with different people. Me its my ears, but some guys love there neck sucked and bitten (hard) and others have sensitive nipples. Im only naming a few, it takes ages to find them if you dont know what your doing :S

  3. I would stop him the moment I see him making his way to my ear!!! I would NOT let his mouth close to my ear. SICK!!

  4. It depends on how you do it. There’s a way to do it and there’s a way not to. Obviously you shouldn’t be slobbering down another guy’s ear but if you do it right it makes guys moan.
    Some light blowing, nibbling, and licking works well I’ve found. I love to do it and to have guys play with my ears. Guys love it when I massage their ears too. Not too big of a fan of that myself.

  5. If you want to make my whole body go limp and put me in a very special place, go for the ears but hold the extra slobber. I have been with guys who are that way with their nips and I never understood it until a guy went for my ears. I think I could cum from that alone if it was done long enough.

  6. VERY HOT. For a stud to stand behind me with this arms wrapped around my waist and his small head nestled in my ass crack, his big head in the crick of my neck, his tongue making love to my right ear. Like good sex, it just naturally belongs there, going in and out. I lay my head back against his upper chest, driving me to cum without touching myself.

  7. It’s very hot, I once had a guy having me against the wall while he tried to do me from behind, but I was so nervous that I was just
    ‘not’ opening up, so he slowly leaned forward whispered nice and sweet things to me and licked my ear lobe, I seriously just relaxed as soon as his tongue got into my ear lobe and he slowly licked my ear while trying to fuck me. It was so hot.

  8. It’s very hot, I once had a guy having me against the wall while he tried to do me from behind, but I was so nervous that I was just
    ‘not’ opening up, so he slowly leaned forward whispered nice and sweet things to me and licked my ear lobe, I seriously just relaxed as soon as his tongue got into my ear lobe and he slowly licked my ear while trying to fuck me. It was so hot.

  9. I love ear play. Get semi-hard when the barber massages my ears with a hot towel.
    I like to give it, too. Massaging his ears while he gives head, licking/nibbling at the lobe, sometimes gently rubbing my tongue along the rim. It’s also one of my go-to biting places for when my married guy really gets me going, so I don’t give him a hickey.

  10. I love ear play. Get semi-hard when the barber massages my ears with a hot towel.
    I like to give it, too. Massaging his ears while he gives head, licking/nibbling at the lobe, sometimes gently rubbing my tongue along the rim. It’s also one of my go-to biting places for when my married guy really gets me going, so I don’t give him a hickey.

  11. AH! It’s SOOO hot! I have my cartilage pierced too, so when I guy runs over the rims of my ears with his fingers an tongue and then goes to town on my earring… fogettaboutit. Definitely my favorite part of foreplay.

  12. AH! It’s SOOO hot! I have my cartilage pierced too, so when I guy runs over the rims of my ears with his fingers an tongue and then goes to town on my earring… fogettaboutit. Definitely my favorite part of foreplay.

  13. There are guys that can do it very effectively. I think it should always be done just light enough that it leaves the person squirming for more, but you shouldn’t indulge that. There are also guys that will try to stick their entire tongue down your ear, and that just feels disgusting.

  14. Ear play drives me fucking wild, I “retaliate” by turning the guy around, grabbing him by the ankles and banging him so hard you hear him cry for his mommy!

  15. It really depends on how you do it. Ive had guys “try” to be sexy and blow in my ear and its just rather annoying, but then others breath in my ear while they kiss me and its hot. idk, i prefer giving ear treatment over recieving. Gives my man goosebumps EVERYTIME. your welcome. 😉

  16. Oh my god… I used to have sex with one guy who LOVED to play with my ears and I pretty much turned to mush. Even thinking about it gives me the chills!

  17. I love ear play when it’s done right – lightly and playfully. But one of the WORST experiences for me is when I first get intimate with a guy, and he just jams his tongue into my ear. Wet, forceful and YUCKY! And it has happened to be a few times! I think too many guys have “learned”, mistakenly, that it’s a great technique or something. It can be, but not in the way they do it.

  18. MikeH has it right. Though, really, I’d probably forgive either of these two guys if they did try and lick my ear drum 🙂

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